I realised I haven't been going out in my university years due to being stuck in the wrong body. I didn't talk with people either, and this situation did drain my social skills.
Since going FT I barely have enough clothes for my day to day stuff, so I don't have apparel to go out yet, but I will soon. I seen to want to go and meet people these days, as opposed to being ashamed of myself. I smile a lot easier as well. :) Though I don't pass 100% yet, I think I do well enough and I'm sure I will be meeting new people fairly soon. :)
Little girls don't have to learn to be little girls and likewise little boys don't have to learn to be little boys they just express themselves without wondering am I behaving like a girl/boy should? Get your mind straight and all else will follow. Whether you like it or not you are constantly expressing yourself to others.
Be yourself...its all that matters. i dont really care what ppl have to say neg about me..its my life not theirs and im gonna do what i want with it..
If you are at Uni, going out in what you wear to class is probably ok for a lot of things anyway. Go for it, enjoy!
Karen.
@all thanks for the advice
@Meinoz
I realise. Well it is mostly the clubbing scene I have been missing so far. Women here tend to dress really well and it is a bit intimidating. It is true that most brazilian women look really good.
For everything else, like going to the movies, my current clothes work fine :)
I would be scared to go clubbing! I commend your courage for even thinking about it.
Huggs
Em