Hi Everyone!
I've actually been posting for a few days so I thought I'd better introduce myself. I'm a 47 year old bi-gendered physical male living in Los Angeles. I came to the realization of my gender identity only within the last few years. I identify as both male and female which to me explains how I didn't realize it sooner. I was, of course, raised male and being equally comfortable with my male and female halves didn't realize what all the signals of my female half really meant until about 2 years ago.
I've been unconsciously becoming more femme over the years. It's easy to see looking back but at the time I didn't think much of the changes. I then ran into the Becoming Ella blog and through that found the COGIATI. I took the test which resulted in almost 50/50 split between male and female. Now, I realize the test is very informal and is not yet scientifically proven but the results really fit what I've been feeling and experiencing.
Since then I've read a lot of blogs and sites like this and even joined one or two but never stayed with them. I believe this place is different in that transgendered issues are openly discussed without the sexual or fetish overtones. So it looks like I'll kick my shoes off and sit a spell! :)
Ember
PS Regarding my name avatar name, I was looking through gender neutral baby name sites and found Ember, a name of Germanic origin used in England and Western Europe. I like Ember but I really wanted Teagan (Scottish) but the name was already taken on this site and I thought Tegan (English spelling) might be confused with the Teagan already here. Any opinions on whether Tegan would be ok to use here or should I stay with Ember? (I really like the name Teagan/Tegan and have considered asking my girlfriend to call me that when I'm En Femme).
Hi Ember!Nice to meet you.I`m androgene too and found out just like you did,what a small world!Funny you should ask about changing your display name,as i really wish i could change mine.I was in such a hurry(typical!)i did`nt even think about it,i guess i was having a blonde moment or something.I`m a bit dumb with computers and websites and stuff and i can`t see how to do it on here,but if you know how to i`d be glad if you let me know!x
Hi Ember, welcome to Susans! I like your name! You will be able to edit your profile when you reach 15 posts. Take a peek at the rules and TOS so you'll be ready when the staff works you over.....I mean greets you, why do I keep saying things like that? See you around, hugs, Tracey
Welcome Ember!
As you've probably noticed by now, considering you say you've been posting already, this forum is an excellent place for all sorts of support! I hope you enjoy your stay. :)
Thanks for the warm welcome everyone! :)
Hi Ember,it is nice to meet you,Hugs,Rachael.
Welcome to the forums, Ember :)