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Community Conversation => Non-binary talk => Topic started by: Metroland on October 19, 2011, 05:19:56 AM

Title: Non-binary names
Post by: Metroland on October 19, 2011, 05:19:56 AM
What is a good name for a non-binary person? I think it comes down to the meaning of the name, but any girl/boy name doesn't work.

What do you think?
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: mimpi on October 19, 2011, 06:17:39 AM
Courtney? As in Courtney Cox and Courtney Walsh (the West Indies fast bowler)

Andrea and Nicola are also male or female depending on whether one is Italian or not. Iman/Eman can also be male or female depending on country of origin. There are probably many others but can't think of them right now.
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: Shana A on October 19, 2011, 09:28:05 AM
I created my name rather than using an existing name. I've always liked that it isn't gendered.

Z
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: ZaidaZadkiel on October 19, 2011, 10:09:34 AM
depends on the person.
Does this person likes mangos? I would like to have my children named after fruits.
I'd have Mango and Strawberry and Kiwi.
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: Miniar on October 19, 2011, 10:46:08 AM
There are two names that appear both on the "approved" male and female lists of names in Iceland.

Alex and Dagmar

Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: Julian on October 19, 2011, 10:55:36 AM
I used to keep a list of baby names. Which is odd seeing as I've never ever wanted kids. The majority of the names were unisex. I had Maddox and Rowan and Avery and Eden and Cole. Never kept track of meanings, just pretty names.

I got my name by androgynizing/masculinizing my given name. Masculine, androgynous, or feminine, all the versions mean something having to do with youth. Which turns out to have a lot to do with how I see myself.
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: Sevan on October 19, 2011, 11:05:35 AM
Like Z I made up my name (or I thought I did...seems it's actually a "real" name already) but I found a website that helped me come up with my middle name, and I think it's a pretty cool website:  http://www.cool-baby-names.com/search-unisex.php (http://www.cool-baby-names.com/search-unisex.php)

My middle name is Marlow. :)
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: mimpi on October 19, 2011, 11:11:42 AM
Quote from: ZaidaZadkiel on October 19, 2011, 10:09:34 AM
depends on the person.
Does this person likes mangos? I would like to have my children named after fruits.
I'd have Mango and Strawberry and Kiwi.

Just avoid using Rambutan (hairy) if it's a girl!
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: Metroland on October 19, 2011, 12:21:57 PM
Thanks everyone.  I love your ideas Zythyra and ZaidaZadkiel.  Creating a new name is a really good idea. Zaida the names of fruits is really nice. I like names of countries, like India and Kenya.

I prefer to steer away from names that already exist because they might fall in in the binary.  I think that coming up with a name is a good idea.  I am not sure what name I will settle on.

Thanks for your contributions.
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: mimpi on October 19, 2011, 05:43:30 PM
Just found this which has a truly great selection: http://www.20000-names.com/androgynous_names_unisex_names.htm (http://www.20000-names.com/androgynous_names_unisex_names.htm)

Sevan is in there and apparently Armenian, that makes two of us with Armenian first names. :)
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: Sevan on October 19, 2011, 06:27:28 PM
Yep. I Knew that Sevan is an Armanian name. :) Though my sweety and I "created it" for me. We combined the names Sara and Evan and voila! You have Sevan. It was only after I settled on that name for myself that we discovered it was already a name from Armania and is the name of the largest lake there.
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: ZaidaZadkiel on October 19, 2011, 06:32:13 PM
extending the fruit name idea...

way before the internet, people would get their names from some sort of marking thing on their family. So there's people who have names for a profession (Goldsmith, maybe even "Smith")
And in some cultures they give a "good wish" with their name, like some descriptive thing as "Strongman" or even "Luckygambler" hahaha
so yeah.
Title: Re: Non-binary names
Post by: ativan on October 19, 2011, 07:06:36 PM
Ativan...