why is it like that when you have your friends and then they find together with someone
then out of sudden they dont have time for you anymore, only there boyfriend/girlfriend?.
it just annoying me, now I havent got so many relationships to be honest, and pretty untraditional, but is that really how
"tradition relationship" are suposed to be like? =(
yeah, people tend to get swept up in it all, thats why it can be nice to have friends who are friends with both members of the couple
well.. if I got a bf then I would like him to hang out with my friends so well could be together enjoy our time,
I got these 2 girls who are a couple and they also have privat dates without us but they also enjoy there time while we are around its cool..
but it kinda make me sad when people with lovers go all crazy and only spend time with that person it mainly girls who get all catch up..
-__-
Sorry, NatKat, but I've noticed that I've been guilty of this recently.
For the past two months I had been spending a lot of time with my girl and zero time with my amigos, and they definitely noticed. :(
I actually took a nice long break after school to catch up with my friends and it was awesome! My girlfriend wasn't mad or anything, so it was all good. :)
Perhaps you could try and plan something cool with your friends (like a get-together or barbecue or something like that) and tell your friend that he/she/zie can invite his/her/hir SO if he/she/zie wants. Maybe some time with his/her/hir friends will help put things into perspective; it worked out that way for me. :D
Hope everything works out. Sending good wishes your way. :D
Quote from: Sage on October 23, 2011, 01:14:38 PM
Sorry, NatKat, but I've noticed that I've been guilty of this recently.
For the past two months I had been spending a lot of time with my girl and zero time with my amigos, and they definitely noticed. :(
I actually took a nice long break after school to catch up with my friends and it was awesome! My girlfriend wasn't mad or anything, so it was all good. :)
Perhaps you could try and plan something cool with your friends (like a get-together or barbecue or something like that) and tell your friend that he/she/zie can invite his/her/hir SO if he/she/zie wants. Maybe some time with his/her/hir friends will help put things into perspective; it worked out that way for me. :D
Hope everything works out. Sending good wishes your way. :D
I could try it out..
it just already kinda hard, we used to be on the same school live the same place and now I moved a hour-2 away from her while she on a school in sweden, which is a hour the other way...
so in all we are 3 hours away where we use to be 10 minuts, and we cant see each other that often,
to make it harder I try interduce her to some friends but there generally otakus, and she alittle shy cause shes not into that comunety,
then I try interdoce her to some of my other friends but it been like with partys and she dosent like partys,
and it also hard generally if it anything gay, because even thought she is bisexual and been with a girl then she is with a guy now and I dont know how they are with it, she said I shouldnt comment because then he would start saying something nasty..
hmm... -__- well bet it kinda hard, shes a good friend I want her to be happy, but I just dont belive in this kinda love all over the world stuff,
and it kinda akward when she want to have alone time together.. hmm well.. I just bet its more easy to be single on that point.