Yesterday I was proud of my eldest Daughter and my Wife. My Daughter came out to her Mom as Bi. She had been worried about her Mother's reaction and to her credit, Mom took it in stride as if she was being told that the weather would be nasty today.
My wife I am proud of for her acceptance of her Daughter and for really surprising me by defending me and her choice to stay with me as I transition to her Mother.
Her mother was trying to get a christmas family get-together organised. But I wasn't really wanting to go because my Brother-in-law more than likely would start a fight with me because he thinks I should divorce my wife since I am transitioning. Same with my Mother-in-law. She kept saying that I shouldn't put the kids in the middle of it. My wife had enough of it. She went off on her Mom.
" why is it okay for ( Brother-in-law ) to raise his Daughter the way he sees fit but we are not allowed to do the same for our kids?" she asked.
In the end, I decided I wasn't going to go. It was causing too many fights and things weren't set in stone yet. But my wife also said this was the last one for her too.
My Daughter also said she was going to announce that she was bi to her uncle right as he was in the car and about to pull out of the driveway, just to really make him think about his actions because she is her uncle's favorite niece.
Now I have hope that my marriage will not end in divorce. But we shall see ^_^
I'd say this is a huge step forward! Congratulations :D! Here's hoping that everything turns out for the best!