Ask Matt: Allies Stepping Up and Stepping In
November 10, 2011 by Matt Kailey
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A reader writes: "As a cis-gendered man who tries to be an ally, I wonder what your take on the situation is and if there is something more I can follow up with or if there are suggestions for how to handle this in a better way in the future.
"I am a graduate student and I regularly spend time before class in a coffee shop across the street from where my classes meet. One day, I overheard the worker behind the counter and a customer talking in some derogatory and insensitive ways about trans women.
"As I was trying to decide how exactly to 'turn this into a teaching moment,' they started laughing over the customer's suggestion that the solution to their problem would be to 'examine them from a distance with a stick.' At this point I decided to screw teaching and just end this nightmare.