Does your sex feel good or does the sensitivity take control when being penetrated? Does it matter how big a guy is say about 7 1/2 would that be to much because you have limited depth?
Yes, it *can* feel good. Depending on the person and technique and patience. It takes longer for a woman to become aroused, so just a "Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" really isn't satisfying no matter who the woman is.
If properly done, both surgically and with follow up dilation depth should not be an issue. Depth for most post surgical woman is anywhere from 4.5 - 6.5 inches. This is very dependent on the person and the surgeon, though.
Additionally, most men are not anywhere near as long as that. And even if they are, modified technique or position can still be satisfying for both.
-Sandy
hmmmm no one else? I think it's a really good question. I'm surprised at how little information there is about this topic. "What is sex like after SRS?" I've read from women that it's amazing. After I am post op I will write volumes. Many people seem to be keeping silent about it. Hmmm there's a secret isn't there....
I have not had sex with a male since my SRS 18 months ago. I prefer women but enjoy penetration and my girlfriend sometimes does me with a strap on.
Yes, penetration is nice and a size which fills you up but is not so large that it hurts is best.
The important point though is that the entire character of sex is different than the male experience - don't forget that:-
* over half of the born women can't climax from penetration alone
* a significant proportion of women can't or have never had a climax
* the clitoris is the centre of a woman's sexual universe - penetration is a guy-thing, a "get in and start pumping ASAP" mindset
Quote from: WishnHopeN on February 17, 2012, 12:09:23 AM
Hmmm there's a secret isn't there....
Yup !!Stay round and find out ;D
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
Ladies ,there are no secrets IT'S A WONDERFUL THING !!!!!! I believe I made a few comments in the past about my encounters and was told not to elaborate so as not to upset anyone. But i am here to tell you having your pussy slobbed on hehehehehe lol and intercourse is fan->-bleeped-<-intabulous yes thats the word lol ummmhuh its good lol no really ..... all jokes aside I had a couple of clinical incounters that were Greatttt!!! But the fuun ones were even better ;))
Quote from: Sandy on November 15, 2011, 05:39:01 AM
Yes, it *can* feel good. Depending on the person and technique and patience. It takes longer for a woman to become aroused, so just a "Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" really isn't satisfying no matter who the woman is.
Sandy has explained it perfectly, for me it really depends on the technique and patience of the guy, my husband is well endowed but is always very patience and very gentle with me, good forplay to relax and moisten me up before he gently penetrates me, ''no wham, bam, thank you, ma'am'' for me, when Im nice and moist he penetrates nicely, it feels good and the look of satisfaction on his face is priceless, we're both happy, moments like this I really enjoy just being a woman.
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Quote from: Sandy on November 15, 2011, 05:39:01 AM
Yes, it *can* feel good. Depending on the person and technique and patience. It takes longer for a woman to become aroused, so just a "Wham, bam, thank you ma'am" really isn't satisfying no matter who the woman is.
If properly done, both surgically and with follow up dilation depth should not be an issue. Depth for most post surgical woman is anywhere from 4.5 - 6.5 inches. This is very dependent on the person and the surgeon, though.
Additionally, most men are not anywhere near as long as that. And even if they are, modified technique or position can still be satisfying for both.
-Sandy
Actually YES, I just said some thing like this in another thread. MOST men aren't actually as big as that anyway. I think yes it does depend on your surgeon, and what he/she can achieve. up to 7 half inches can be done, if your surgeon has enough to work with :)