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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: JohnAlex on November 15, 2011, 11:49:36 PM

Poll
Question: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Option 1: <1 month (or less) votes: 2
Option 2: 1-3 months votes: 5
Option 3: 3-6 months votes: 3
Option 4: 6-12 months votes: 2
Option 5: >12 months (or more) votes: 1
Option 6: see poll results votes: 5
Title: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: JohnAlex on November 15, 2011, 11:49:36 PM
How long after your first initial visit with your therapist did you get that same therapist to write your letter for hormones?

I sure hope I got the < and > symbols right, lol.
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: dmx on November 16, 2011, 12:36:50 AM
For "greater than 12", replace the "12<" with ">12".

Anyway it took 2 weeks (a total of 2 sessions, each an hour long).
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: JohnAlex on November 16, 2011, 01:30:24 AM
Thank you.   wow, that's soon, that's awesome :)
Why do you think you were able to get it so soon?


also, now I accidentally reset the poll results :P  so if you wouldn't mind voting again...  lol.
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: dmx on November 16, 2011, 02:53:34 AM
Haha alright I'll vote again.

It said on the therapist's website that she required at least 2 sessions and what would be involved in them: the first = talking about childhood and then filling out a gender-based questionnaire, the second = talking about present issues and filling out another questionnaire. It said that in most cases, this is all that's required for a thorough assessment.

So I just made it clear that I was there for hormone readiness assessment and not therapy or counselling.

She charged $200 an hour, though.
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: Adio on November 16, 2011, 08:43:06 AM
It took me...about 5 years to get my letter.  I started (gender-related) therapy at 15 and finally got my letter at 20.  Mostly this was due to my age and family issues (my mom didn't want me starting T yet).  But when I finally was able to ask for a letter, I got it as soon as it was written (roughly 1 week).

P.S.  You can view results without voting.  Just click the "View Results" button underneath the poll.
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: JenJen2011 on November 16, 2011, 09:30:54 AM
3 months for me.
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: Nygeel on November 16, 2011, 10:21:17 AM
I went to therapy about trans stuff many years ago. I was there for 3 months, felt like it was going nowhere and quit. I looked for other options and eventually went to a place that uses informed consent.
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: Robert Scott on November 16, 2011, 10:47:26 AM
We wrote my letter about 2 months after I started therapy --- but she said on my second visit -- she would write the letter whenever I was ready
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: bojangles on November 16, 2011, 10:50:36 AM
about 2 months
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: Jeatyn on November 16, 2011, 10:54:30 AM
I made first contact with the gatekeepers almost 4 years ago, today I got an appointment through for a clinic, no idea how long they'll take to finally give me T
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: JohnAlex on November 16, 2011, 08:17:43 PM
Quote from: Adio on November 16, 2011, 08:43:06 AMP.S.  You can view results without voting.  Just click the "View Results" button underneath the poll.

Oh, I'm glad it's working for some people then.  I specifically checked the option to allow people to see the results without voting, but for some reason I don't see that button on my side, and I couldn't see the results without voting, so I had to add in the last option.
Title: Re: How long did you have to wait to get your letter?
Post by: Felix on November 19, 2011, 09:57:19 PM
I just clicked View Results. My timing isn't cleanly measurable. I'd been seeing a therapist, and then I came out to her as trans, and she was supportive, and for a year we just worked that into the discussions that were already happening. So when I called and asked for a letter, she was really happy for me.