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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: carllylashess on December 09, 2011, 04:09:57 PM

Title: how do i take things further
Post by: carllylashess on December 09, 2011, 04:09:57 PM
Iam a crossdresser/tv and I when i go out i get a lot of attention from men ,i always flirt back kiss and cuddle but , i would love to take things further. I have had no sexual experience with men and iam scared of messing things up. Any tips on how not to look a virgin?   
Title: Re: how do i take things further
Post by: lavistaa on December 29, 2011, 04:44:06 PM
What's wrong with seeming new or inexperienced at this aspect of your sexuality? Everyone starts from a different place and being yourself seems to always be a good default plan.  Trying to appear more experienced than you are generally makes people seem anxious and uncomfortable.   Comfort and confidence are more attractive and experience IMHO.
Title: Re: how do i take things further
Post by: finally-ROBERTA on January 24, 2012, 10:54:46 PM
well u can start by kissing deeply, touching and let him feel your smooth legs
then just let nature take its course
try to satisfy him
you will probably like it and  u will gain confidence as you explore your feelings
Title: Re: how do i take things further
Post by: JulieC. on January 25, 2012, 07:20:01 PM
Be yourself.  I think most guys would love the fact that you are inexperienced and he could be your "first".  Let him guide you. 
Title: Re: how do i take things further
Post by: Stephanie Stephens on January 28, 2012, 08:21:08 AM
Quote from: JulieC. on January 25, 2012, 07:20:01 PM
Be yourself.  I think most guys would love the fact that you are inexperienced and he could be your "first".  Let him guide you.

What she said.