Hello my name is Mari i am from spring hill florida looking for some advice about crossdressing and if indeed i am crossdresser or am i a transgender because i dress up and most times i get very depressed when i have to change out of my clothes can someone please help me with some advice
well statistics show that practically all MtF crossdress from very early and I've seen but don't believe that 50% of all males try crossdressing so you're definitely in there somewhere but you need to talk your life things through back and forward with a therapist to try decide where you are on the spectrum.
Hi Mari some info as well.
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You really need to talk to a therapist to get the situation resolved. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a CD or a TG you are perfectly normal. So don't beat yourself up about it. There is a lot of info here as well which you will find useful.
Cindy
I crossed dressed for a very long time before I finally came to the conclusion I am transgendered. Only you can answer that question about yourself and certainly a therapist can help you do that.
Wow. I'm going through the same issue too. I don't know if I'm really just a CDer or if I'm actually TG or TS. But it's leaning towards trans. Ahh these damn subcategories! Stupid Taxonomy.
- Keri
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Does it help to know that when i first began cross-dressing about 3 years ago, i was asked by a girl in a salon if i was going to be a full-time female. I knew the answer to this one...no... so, thinking on my feet, i said that it was a bit like having an internal mirror, that you could turn first one way, and then the other.
I liked the idea, and that is how i've thought of myself ever since. It also means that i give myself permission to dress as i feel on the day, without having to go through paroxysms of anxiety about looking 'convincing'. or wondering whether i'm being 'read'. You always are, anyway...
That help?
Clare