Well, from 2 years ago i am figthing whithin to develop if i want make a transtion or not, of course one of the worse obtacle is the fear of how i will look, i still looking as a guy...sadly as it is, have almost 31 (the pics i have 30 ) . I try hormones in two times, but fear (and be in midle of a relationship) make me stop one months after start. I do hair removal in face (but dont finish yet), chest (almost good result, i am not more a bear..but have yet much hair for a girl) and legs (first session one month ago, very good result)
I want oppinions specially about my body size and shape...is posibly in some way what i can look like a girl in the future? suggestions are welcome.
PLease dont talk about thepary, where i live that dont exist
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I hope the links work, first time trying it XD
And sorry for the bad english :s. I am from Argentina
Almost everyone has the potential to pass and look beautiful, it's usually just a question of how much money you're willing to spend and how many surgeries and other procedures you're willing to go through. Your lips, cheeks, and browline all seem somewhat feminine. I think what will be most difficult for you is the jaw and the chin; covering these up can be done with hairstyles, makeup, and other techniques. Or, you can have facial feminization surgery which is usually very successful and helps one's confidence and passing ability. The downside is that it's quite expensive.
Questions you should consider...
1. Is this really what I want? Do I know inside that I am truly a girl?
2. What are the obstacles that stand in the way of my transition?
3. How much money do I have/am willing to spend on transition?
Regardless, if you feel you are transgender the first step is to begin seeing a therapist. There is a great list of therapists here:
http://www.lauras-playground.com/gender_therapists.htm (http://www.lauras-playground.com/gender_therapists.htm)
Good luck! :)
yes, i know what the ideal is go to a therapyst, but i dare to say that the more close therapyst whit knowlowledge about genre issues is at 10000 klm. of distance (or 2000 whit lucky)
Thank for the comment :)
Going purely off the pictures here, I think you would pass easily with some effort.
Also, there are online therapists that could help in your situation.
Yes, You'll be beautiful. :angel:
I think you'll be cute, you have an awesome complexion.
Quote from: fuschia on December 11, 2011, 11:47:46 AM
Almost everyone has the potential to pass and look beautiful, it's usually just a question of how much money you're willing to spend and how many surgeries and other procedures you're willing to go through.
+1
First of all Emi, welcome to the forum! Now, back to the discussion...
Passing does not always imply attractiveness, as the latter usually requires additional work, though some people are blessed. The question you're asking is difficult for me to answer. I suppose if money is no issue and you're willing to do whatever it takes, then yes, you could pass. I can't say whether you'll be attractive; too many variables left unsaid and unseen. Furthermore and regardless, attraction is in the eye of the beholder, thus while one may say yes, another may say no. Take it for a grain of salt, there is no fact when it comes to passing or attraction. I apologize if I seem harsh, I have never understood the question, "Could I pass?" (This was a rhetorical statement, by the way).
Now, as far as suggestions, that I can do and that makes sense to me. As mentioned, your chin and jaw are noticeable masculine features. Perhaps attempting to arch your eyebrows even slightly would also make a difference for the better. Beyond that, it's hard to say. It is much easier to get an idea of what to recommend and give suggestions if the person makes an attempt in the photos to look feminine. Beyond this, it is also about self-acceptance, thus you'll need to discover your own wishes as far as how you want to look, excluding what anyone else says. Know what you want in the end, never do something because someone else told you to.
I think you'll be stunning
Yes, you will be beautiful. Looking at the pictures I see very good "lines" for womanhood.
Congrats!
Thanks for all the answer, in one way or other all help.
Now i must chose between start hormones or just save money for surgery. And of course, try to dont thoug to much about my gf dissapoint if i start again whit it.
Kisses, and again thanks, you are kind just for take your time to read and answer :)
Hormones! Especially since...
a) they are cheap
b) once you do have surgery, if you've been on hormones for awhile you will feel more "done" with transition
c) you're required to have been on hormones for 12 months to even have surgery
sweety you've got a girl under there for sure
yes you are gonna be beautiful one day just don't give up on your dreams.
I think you'll be a very beautiful girl -- I can see it now.
Quiero que seras muy hermosa. Verdad. Perdoname' por mi Castellano ;) Bienvenidos a la forum.
Cindi