interesting article
http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15532739.2011.622125#preview (http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15532739.2011.622125#preview)
lotsa fancy talk in this but does the guy really understand?
http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15532739.2011.623652 (http://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/15532739.2011.623652)
This is what people who don't understand my condition ask me. However, I'm a woman. :)