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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Topic started by: GQPAT on March 13, 2007, 02:14:09 PM

Title: Performing Drag?
Post by: GQPAT on March 13, 2007, 02:14:09 PM
Hey this is a question to those MTFs/FTMs that are well into their transition/have transitioned!

Just curious if any of you have performed drag...ie: on a stage, in a cabaret, etc...cause its something I've seriously considered...I mean I dont feel comfortable enough right now because I just started on hormones a month ago...but I've been thinking that a year or two down the road itd be fun to bind my breasts, attach facial hair to a face that I've lasered, and pack something that Ive either tucked or altered and do a drag-king performance!  So how many MTFs feel the same way as me.  Likewise, how many FTMs out there have considered doing dragqueen performances?  Or is that just WAAAAY too taboo for this board (haha)!

Cheers: Patty
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Lucy on March 13, 2007, 02:25:33 PM
Sorry+patty ive never considered it
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: cindianna_jones on March 13, 2007, 02:47:16 PM
When I first started kicking round Salt Lake City as me, the only friends I found who would accept me were  members of the the local MCC church. They took me in and offered me a wonderful friendship. They would drop by and pick me up on weekends for a night out on the town in the local gay bars.

What an education that was for me. I had never seen anything like it.  I was shocked. Somehow, they managed to get me up on stage one night to lip sync to a song "Bad Boys" by Miami Sound Machine (Gloria Estephan).  I had performed in a rock n roll band in years previous so I had some sense of entertaining.  I had a blast with it and it was a big hit with the audience.  Later that year, they asked me to represent the SLC delegation in the Idaho coronation by doing the same number.  They took me to Idaho, I performed and had a blast.

So, there ya go.  Two times on stage. That was my female impersonation career.

Cindi
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Melissa on March 13, 2007, 03:22:17 PM
Interesting topic.  I have to perform once every month or 2.  Normally I just go as myself, but I had discussed about doing a drag king thing, but now I don't think I could do it psychologically.  It would be too hard on me.  I need more time and I may eventually try it.

As far as performing goes, I have gotten pretty good considering I had never done it before the middle of last year before.

Melissa
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: LynnER on March 13, 2007, 08:38:23 PM
Ummmmm....  Does playing in a band durring transition before full time count?  Otherwide no and never thought about it, and dosnt sound like my type of thing.
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: katia on March 13, 2007, 10:20:41 PM
drag shows? im a [woman] not a drag queen.  no offense to drag queens btw.
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Melissa on March 13, 2007, 11:20:04 PM
Quote from: Katia on March 13, 2007, 10:20:41 PM
drag shows? im a [woman] not a drag queen.  no offense to drag queens btw.
If you had read the first post, you would've seen that it was asking if we have tried performing as dragkings since we are women.

Melissa
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Lucy on March 14, 2007, 03:58:17 AM
I find the whole subject a bit topsy tervy. Its a nice idea but a little confusing.

Born male, HRT to turn Female and then put on a fake beard and slaks to look male to perform.

emmmmm

I little strange.


Sorry just my opinion. ::)
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: GQPAT on March 14, 2007, 09:00:36 AM
Quote from: Lucy on March 14, 2007, 03:58:17 AM
Born male, HRT to turn Female and then put on a fake beard and slaks to look male to perform.

See thats what I'm saying its like one of the ULTIMATE taboos for our community!

Cheers: Patty

P.S. Taboos are fun (well okay not all but a lot of them are)!
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Maud on March 14, 2007, 09:03:03 AM
As long as I didn't pass I don't think I'd have a strong aversion to it, it just doesn't really seem like my idea of a "fun thing to do".
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Kate on March 14, 2007, 09:58:50 AM
Quote from: Lucy on March 14, 2007, 03:58:17 AM
Born male, HRT to turn Female and then put on a fake beard and slaks to look male to perform.

Sounds like that "Victor/Victoria" movie from years ago... sorta... just reversed.

Kate
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: katia on March 14, 2007, 05:46:15 PM
Quote from: Melissa on March 13, 2007, 11:20:04 PM
Quote from: Katia on March 13, 2007, 10:20:41 PM
drag shows? im a [woman] not a drag queen.  no offense to drag queens btw.
If you had read the first post, you would've seen that it was asking if we have tried performing as dragkings since we are women.

Melissa

i did read the post.  why on earth would i want to dress as a guy?

Quote from: lucyI find the whole subject a bit topsy tervy.
Born male, HRT to turn Female and then put on a fake beard and slaks to look male to perform.
emmmmm
I little strange.

it's crazy and stupid, that's what it is!

Quote from: mawdit just doesn't really seem like my idea of a "fun thing to do".

exactly! it's beyond [strange] ::)
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Melissa on March 14, 2007, 07:21:01 PM
Quote from: Katia on March 14, 2007, 05:46:15 PM
Quote from: Melissa on March 13, 2007, 11:20:04 PM
Quote from: Katia on March 13, 2007, 10:20:41 PM
drag shows? im a [woman] not a drag queen.  no offense to drag queens btw.
If you had read the first post, you would've seen that it was asking if we have tried performing as dragkings since we are women.

Melissa

i did read the post.  why on earth would i want to dress as a guy?
I thought you hadn't because you referred to drag queens when only drag kings were mentioned.  When I figure out the answer to your question, I'll let you know. ;)  Actually, the only reason I can think of is to prove that you can't pass as a guy.

Melissa
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: taru on March 15, 2007, 02:42:54 AM
If GGs can do drag king things and have fun with them, why would being trans make it 'crazy and stupid'?
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Lucy on March 15, 2007, 03:34:52 AM
Quote from: taru on March 15, 2007, 02:42:54 AM
If GGs can do drag king things and have fun with them, why would being trans make it 'crazy and stupid'?

Your point is valid Taru but you strive all your life just to get rid of the male look and then for fun do the drag king stuff,  I dont think my mental state would let me do it.
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: tinkerbell on March 15, 2007, 09:10:41 PM
Hmmmmm...well, what some people may consider "stupid" may not be "stupid" for others.  If you don't like it, just don't do it.  If you do, let me join the fun, but let's wait until Halloween first! ;)  Life is soooooo serious as it is, relax, smile, don't worry, be happy!

tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Kate on March 15, 2007, 09:36:18 PM
Quote from: Katia on March 14, 2007, 05:46:15 PM
it's crazy and stupid, that's what it is!

exactly! it's beyond [strange]

Which is *exactly* what our critics say about us, and what WE do.

Besides, I think drag being "crazy and stupid", meant in a good-natured "let's have fun!" kinda way is sorta the point of doing it, ya know?

Kate
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: cindianna_jones on March 16, 2007, 12:39:23 AM
I don't think that I could bind my breasts.  Those tennis balls in there don't mash flat! ;)

In the right crowd, I'd do it. It's just fun. Besides... I wouldn't have to lip sync. I could sing with my natural voice.  That in itself could be rewarding.  I so miss singing for other people.

Cindi
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: GQPAT on March 16, 2007, 09:17:51 AM
Quote from: Tink on March 15, 2007, 09:10:41 PM
Life is soooooo serious as it is, relax, smile, don't worry, be happy!

tink :icon_chick:

Thats kinda my mentality about it...lifes too short to walk around all serious-like...gotta be able to make fun of yourself at times (ha)!

Cheers: Patty
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Kate on March 16, 2007, 09:40:07 AM
Quote from: GQPAT on March 16, 2007, 09:17:51 AM
gotta be able to make fun of yourself at times (ha)!

Oh, I soooo agree!!!

If you can't laugh at yourself... rest assured, others will do it for you ;)

Kate
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Melissa on March 16, 2007, 10:48:33 AM
Quote from: Kate on March 15, 2007, 09:36:18 PM
Quote from: Katia on March 14, 2007, 05:46:15 PM
it's crazy and stupid, that's what it is!

exactly! it's beyond [strange]

Which is *exactly* what our critics say about us, and what WE do.

Besides, I think drag being "crazy and stupid", meant in a good-natured "let's have fun!" kinda way is sorta the point of doing it, ya know?

Kate

Kate, you get a cookie. :)

Melissa
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Thundra on March 16, 2007, 05:15:03 PM
Quoteit's crazy and stupid, that's what it is!

exactly! it's beyond [strange]

Katia, that's why they call us queer!!!!  LOL!!
But we know how to have fun.
And lordy, have I picked up some hot grrrls that way.
Title: Re: Performing Drag?
Post by: Shana A on March 16, 2007, 06:26:32 PM
I've often thought that I'll know that I've achieved complete transformation when people think that I'm female doing drag when dressed as male. I once told someone I was trans, they asked which gender was I changing to ;D

I performed at a drag show/benefit many years ago, but we didn't lipsync, we actually sang a political song. It went over like a lead balloon, I think we might have done better with that crowd if we'd just lipsynched a Madonna song.

zythyra