You know I was out at a local gay bar last night. I'm mostly into other girls. strait-curious lesbian? But so it occurred to me that if you looking for a boost in your self esteem; Its not a bad place to be. Now bear with me, but when you start talking to a butch girl you can't help but thinking that you pass. xD It kind of makes all the work to look cute more worth it.
... does that make me bitch :( I mean I'm thinking to my self "Yes! I'm prettier then her." Should I feel bad about that? lol
Quote from: Jennifer.L on December 28, 2011, 02:17:03 PM
... does that make me bitch :( I mean I'm thinking to my self "Yes! I'm prettier then her." Should I feel bad about that? lol
Not really.
Was it a lez or gay bar?
Quote from: Jennifer.L on December 28, 2011, 02:17:03 PM
You know I was out at a local gay bar last night. I'm mostly into other girls. strait-curious lesbian? But so it occurred to me that if you looking for a boost in your self esteem; Its not a bad place to be. Now bear with me, but when you start talking to a butch girl you can't help but thinking that you pass. xD It kind of makes all the work to look cute more worth it.
... does that make me bitch :( I mean I'm thinking to my self "Yes! I'm prettier then her." Should I feel bad about that? lol
Kia Ora Jennifer,
::) I'm guessing she would take it as a compliment if you told her this... ;) ;D
Metta Zenda :)
I think it is bitchy to consider that you are prettier than a gg.
but whatever, we've all done it. :)
Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on December 28, 2011, 02:21:41 PM
Not really.
Was it a lez or gay bar?
It could have been a lez in a gay bar, you know - lol.
Gay bars are so interesting for me now - picking up cute straight boys at those kind of places is crazy. But I feel much safer hitting on those boys than I do in the straight bars, though. Obviously because they are in a gay bar so that means they are much more open minded to the "->-bleeped-<- surprise".
In straight bars, I keep my hands to myself and tread the ground very carefully (unlike my old reckless days, heh).
Quote from: MsDazzler on December 28, 2011, 06:00:46 PM
It could have been a lez in a gay bar, you know - lol.
Gay bars are so interesting for me now - picking up cute straight boys at those kind of places is crazy. But I feel much safer hitting on those boys than I do in the straight bars, though. Obviously because they are in a gay bar so that means they are much more open minded to the "->-bleeped-<- surprise".
In straight bars, I keep my hands to myself and tread the ground very carefully (unlike my old reckless days, heh).
My boyfriend hates gay bars and gay people. So my fun in gay bars isn't allowed. He is also repulsed by "gay men prancing around in drag" LMAO. Ironic much?
Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on December 28, 2011, 06:40:29 PM
My boyfriend hates gay bars and gay people. So my fun in gay bars isn't allowed. He is also repulsed by "gay men prancing around in drag" LMAO. Ironic much?
God, I couldn't date someone who would prohibit me from going to gay bars! There is a little test I like to do on guys on the Internet sometimes - if they want to meet, I slyly suggest meeting at a bar at the Castro to see their reactions, heh.
I have another transgender friend who has a boyfriend who sounds like your boyfriend. I met him twice (ironically at the Pride Parade in Sacramento and the Mix!)
Quote from: MsDazzler on December 28, 2011, 06:49:19 PM
God, I couldn't date someone who would prohibit me from going to gay bars! There is a little test I like to do on guys on the Internet sometimes - if they want to meet, I slyly suggest meeting at a bar at the Castro to see their reactions, heh.
I have another transgender friend who has a boyfriend who sounds like your boyfriend. I met him twice (ironically at the Pride Parade in Sacramento and the Mix!)
I considered doing that. I asked one guy to meet me at the TURF and he said, "But thats a gay club." and I was like, "You're a smart boy"
Quote from: Mahsa the disco shark on December 28, 2011, 06:50:42 PM
I considered doing that. I asked one guy to meet me at the TURF and he said, "But thats a gay club." and I was like, "You're a smart boy"
Well, I notice the hottest sex I tend to get tends to be from straight guys who meet me at bars in the castro.... maybe their sexual inhibitions go out the window just being in that environment?
Quote from: MsDazzler on December 28, 2011, 06:56:09 PM
Well, I notice the hottest sex I tend to get tends to be from straight guys who meet me at bars in the castro.... maybe their sexual inhibitions go out the window just being in that environment?
They are looking for fruitflies or ->-bleeped-<-s. Never ->-bleeped-<- hags...only ->-bleeped-<-s sleep with ->-bleeped-<- hags.
I am movin to SF next year(assuming I can get a consistent job after name change) and I plan to hit the Castro after work. My b/f told me he would dump me if I move to SF...I'll leave him with his alzheimer infected wife.
lol oh its a small town. it's an everything but strair bar. these are defiantly lez. I wouldn't mind if a strong lez girl liked me ^.^
What are you going to be doing in SF? Whats it like there? :D
Quote from: Jennifer.L on December 29, 2011, 12:16:44 AM
What are you going to be doing in SF? Whats it like there? :D
Just bottoming.
Lots of gays, hipsters, yuppies....great shopping, great food, great views. Lots to do.
Quote from: Jennifer.L on December 28, 2011, 02:17:03 PM
You know I was out at a local gay bar last night. I'm mostly into other girls. strait-curious lesbian? But so it occurred to me that if you looking for a boost in your self esteem; Its not a bad place to be. Now bear with me, but when you start talking to a butch girl you can't help but thinking that you pass. xD It kind of makes all the work to look cute more worth it.
... does that make me bitch :( I mean I'm thinking to my self "Yes! I'm prettier then her." Should I feel bad about that? lol
I rarely go to gay bars but last time I had a very nice attractive lesbian girl hit on me!
I brought a guy home from Q Bar last night - we just cuddled and kissed. He left in the wee hours.
I asked him if he was straight.
He said "yes, with a twist." >:-)
Quote from: MsDazzler on December 29, 2011, 01:46:41 PM
I brought a guy home from Q Bar last night - we just cuddled and kissed. He left in the wee hours.
I asked him if he was straight.
He said "yes, with a twist." >:-)
When I've been to gay bars guys are only interested in other guys!