What do you think the life of a beautiful and feminize man would be in contrast to a beautiful transsexual? The man is so beautiful that he appears very androgynous, long glossy healthy hair, big bright eyes, clear skin, small nose, thin body, long eyelashes, full small lips....
Yet he looks male, but at first glance you don't know.
Versus, a beautiful transsexual woman, but you have to look a few times and you're unsure if it's a man or a woman...very feminine but has those touches of male features like bigger hands wider shoulders... but yet very beautiful.
What's the difference of their lives?
The difference is how they view their own bodies. If they love themselves and like what they see in the mirror, each is happy.
If their view of themselves is that of dysphoria, it matters not how they look to others, their life is not pretty.