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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 02:03:47 PM

Title: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 02:03:47 PM
I completed my one year of being Maia this past weekend and celebrated in style. Got myself a princess dress, tiara and professional makeup application at a MAC store and partied it up with friends. Started at a local friend's house with "It's a girl!" pink decorations everywhere and cupcakes topped with fondant vaginas.  :D Then I went to lesbian night at a local club and got a lot of attention. Usually I don't get approached, but that night I was the belle of the ball and several young ladies came up to me to talk, ask me why I was dressed as I was, tell me I looked beautiful, ask if I was a lesbian or to simply dance. It felt awesome! A couple of the go-go dancers pulled me up on stage and took turns giving me lap dances which culminated in a dual-lapdance with both of them at the same time. I was in heaven and I felt beautiful!

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1124.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fl567%2FMelodyMaia%2F331741_280341635362330_100001594860106_771297_1305704984_o-1.jpg&hash=92aba0abcf97fc3f39b6b3b0578a020892bd5cb6)

Was just looking at my profile pics over time and remembered my very first. This is from January 2011. I can't believe how much my face has changed.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1124.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fl567%2FMelodyMaia%2FDSC_6710-1.jpg&hash=df51efd5de8c868c5623fffcfeb80504d34b4109)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Eve87 on January 23, 2012, 02:08:22 PM
You look amazing!
Personally lesbian clubs fascinate me endlessly and scare me just as much. =P
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: supremecatoverlord on January 23, 2012, 02:12:27 PM
You look great here.


Congrats on your wonderful night.

:3
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 02:38:55 PM
Thanks everyone!

Quote from: Eve87 on January 23, 2012, 02:08:22 PM
You look amazing!
Personally lesbian clubs fascinate me endlessly and scare me just as much. =P

Eve, why do they scare you? I feel right at home at my club.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: spacial on January 23, 2012, 02:44:50 PM
Melody.

You look stunning.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: mixie on January 23, 2012, 02:46:23 PM
Wow I am so happy for you.  How absolutely stunning and YOUNG you look.  You look like a prom girl.  Amazing.  Enjoy every moment.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Eve87 on January 23, 2012, 02:48:09 PM
Quote from: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 02:38:55 PM


Eve, why do they scare you? I feel right at home at my club.

I think I just expect transphobia everywhere. Like I wouldn't be welcome. Or maybe tolerated... but not considered an actual lesbian.
It's probably just in my head. =P
Again, you look fabulous.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: King Malachite on January 23, 2012, 04:05:28 PM
You are very beautiful.  I'm loving the look!
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 04:23:08 PM
Quote from: Eve87 on January 23, 2012, 02:48:09 PM
I think I just expect transphobia everywhere. Like I wouldn't be welcome. Or maybe tolerated... but not considered an actual lesbian.
It's probably just in my head. =P
Again, you look fabulous.

Well, I've been accepted by my lesbian friends as a legitimate lesbian. However, picking someone up at a club and taking them home for a one-night-stand is much more difficult.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: stldrmgrl on January 23, 2012, 04:36:49 PM
Absolutely stunning!  I'm happy for you!
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: pidgeontoed on January 23, 2012, 04:52:37 PM
Congratulations on finishing your year! That's quite the accomplishment and I am extremely jealous of your awesome night. You look amazing, keep it up! ^-^
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: MyKa on January 23, 2012, 05:04:21 PM
Congratulations.......you look amazing!!!!
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Hermione01 on January 23, 2012, 06:00:24 PM
You look absolutely beautiful. :)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: dejan160 on January 23, 2012, 06:55:44 PM
absolute beauty
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Felix on January 23, 2012, 07:05:03 PM
Joyful happy stuff. Congratulations. :)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Jillieann Rose on January 23, 2012, 07:33:14 PM
Wow! Beautiful simple beatiful Maia.
I can't believe how much you have changed.
Hugs,
Jillieann
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Stephe on January 23, 2012, 08:51:04 PM
You ARE a princess! :)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: kelly_aus on January 23, 2012, 09:18:44 PM
You look fabulous Melody.. :)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Alyx. on January 23, 2012, 09:55:38 PM
Wow, you've become rather gorgeous.

How many years hrt has it been for you?
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Max on January 23, 2012, 10:01:04 PM
A beautiful milestone reached with many more joyous moments to come. :D
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 10:11:40 PM
Awww, thank you. Awful lot of makeup in that pic though! lol

I've been on HRT for 15 months at this point. Started when I was 39. One year of HRT between the photos. Will be 41 the day I'm released from the hospital for SRS in two weeks.

Quote from: Heartwood (Alex) on January 23, 2012, 09:55:38 PM
Wow, you've become rather gorgeous.

How many years hrt has it been for you?
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Alyx. on January 23, 2012, 10:15:25 PM
Wow, you're better looking then most 41 year old women. :D

That gives me a lot of hope that maybe someday I'll be gorgeous too.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: J R D on January 23, 2012, 10:24:46 PM
You're very pretty, now I'm going to have to hate you for that.   >:(
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 10:43:06 PM
Quote from: Heartwood (Alex) on January 23, 2012, 10:15:25 PM
Wow, you're better looking then most 41 year old women. :D

That gives me a lot of hope that maybe someday I'll be gorgeous too.


Thank you, I think? Never thought of myself as gorgeous though. Can't believe how well things have turned out.

Quote from: Jaime on January 23, 2012, 10:24:46 PM
You're very pretty, now I'm going to have to hate you for that.   >:(

Awww, please don't. There are plenty of women on this site prettier than me. I got a bit lucky and worked my ass off is all (lost 70lbs).
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: J R D on January 23, 2012, 10:44:59 PM
Quote from: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 10:43:06 PM

Awww, please don't. There are plenty of women on this site prettier than me. I got a bit lucky and worked my ass off is all (lost 70lbs).
I wasn't really serious about the hating part.  :)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: kelly_aus on January 24, 2012, 12:58:11 AM
Quote from: Jaime on January 23, 2012, 10:24:46 PM
You're very pretty, now I'm going to have to hate you for that.   >:(

I'd say I hate her too.. But she'd know that was a lie..  :icon_hug: :icon_bunch:
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Joelene9 on January 24, 2012, 02:08:04 AM
  Melody, You do look marvelous baby!
  Joelene
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: ByeBye on January 24, 2012, 04:17:54 AM
You look fabulous, darling. :)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: kelliehusker on January 24, 2012, 07:25:25 AM
You look FANTASTIC!!!   ;D
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Maja.V on January 24, 2012, 09:01:37 AM
You look fabulous, darling! ;D

I think many of us would strangle a litter of cute kittens to look as good as you :P

And your post brought a wide smile, I'm really happy you had a marvelous time!
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Catherine Sarah on January 24, 2012, 10:50:39 AM
Princess for a night ? ? ?   WRONG !!!
PRINCESS  for LIFE !!!    You mean.

Melody, you are absolutely GOBSMACKINGLY GORGEOUS.:icon_yikes:
FAN-bloody-TASTIC    -   sensationally STUNNING :icon_yikes:

There might be a lot of makeup on that girl, but there's one hell of a woman behind it.

Gawd. If you're not snapped up in the next 90 seconds by the worlds best looking guy, there's something drastically wrong in America. DRASTICALLY WRONG  !!!

I'm absolutely speechless (and that's a world first) on just how spectacular you look.
and in just a shade over 15 bloody months  -  astonishing

It's not the look that concerns me that much. It's what's behind the look that bowls me over flat. Melody you positively radiate womanhood like a 1000  lighthouses on crack.

If I look east I can see a bright light on the horizon. And that isn't sun rise or New Zealand either. It's midnight here.

I hope you celebrated in Greek style, and raged on for 3 continuous days. You deserve every second of it.

What can I say??
Rage on girl !!!
Huggs
Catherine
:icon_drunk: :eusa_dance: :icon_rockon: :icon_yikes: :eusa_clap:
P.S. You haven't got a pix of the dress have you ? ? ?
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 24, 2012, 01:22:09 PM
Oh you guys, you are making me blush. I've been lucky. Catherine I hope you don't mind if I modify your statement to a gorgeous woman. I like the ladies myself.  ;) Here is another view of the same pic. You can see a bit of the dress.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1124.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fl567%2FMelodyMaia%2F331741_280341635362330_100001594860106_771297_1305704984_o.jpg&hash=776c9d86a9ff71663d93b46778e6c7c641dcd581)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: King Malachite on January 24, 2012, 02:45:09 PM
Quote from: Melody Maia on January 23, 2012, 10:11:40 PM
Awww, thank you. Awful lot of makeup in that pic though! lol

I've been on HRT for 15 months at this point. Started when I was 39. One year of HRT between the photos. Will be 41 the day I'm released from the hospital for SRS in two weeks.

You certainly look 24.  I couldn't even tell that you had make up on until you said something.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: heatherrose on January 24, 2012, 08:36:48 PM



You Go Girl...

(triple snap in Z formation)

Snap , Snap, Snap.


Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: monica93304 on January 24, 2012, 08:48:31 PM
Hi Ms. Melody.

You certainly look beautiful, but I see it as a reflection of your soul.

God bless you and of us on this journey into womanhood.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 24, 2012, 09:11:49 PM
Ok guys, here is a pic of the whole dress. Need to drop more weight, but I am far thinner than when I started. Sigh.

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1124.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fl567%2FMelodyMaia%2F341375_280343552028805_100001594860106_771332_947154517_o.jpg&hash=812b934e926b12b131c34030c210539aec119940)
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Colleen Ireland on January 24, 2012, 10:27:58 PM
OMG, Maia, I am SO glad you pulled me over to this thread. Yes, it has been a while. I'm about 5 months behind you on HRT, about a year away from GRS (I hope). But my surgery will be covered by Canada's health plan. Anyway, you look spec-freakin'-tacular!!

On Eve's question, just last weekend I was in Toronto attending a conference of dialog between the Transwomen community and the Lesbian community, and it was a very awesome and powerful day. Lots of learning on both sides.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 24, 2012, 10:40:53 PM
Nice to reconnect Colleen and thank you so much for the compliments. My surgery should be covered by my health insurance. I should hear from them any day on that. They made me jump through a bunch of hoops and provide things not necessary according to the Standards of Care, but I hope it is worth it.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Colleen Ireland on January 25, 2012, 04:17:09 AM
a-MEN, Sistah!!
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Post by: caseyyy on January 25, 2012, 04:30:54 AM
A little late, as I usually am, but wow. You look absolutely incredible. I'm glad you had such a wonderful night.
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Post by: Maegan on January 25, 2012, 05:58:22 AM
Wow! You look stunning!!!

Huggs

Maegan
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: grrl1nside on January 25, 2012, 06:14:09 AM
Just wow... For those of us working through transitioning late, these pics give us all a little more bounce in our step. Hope... Thanks.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Catherine Sarah on January 25, 2012, 01:19:23 PM
Thank you so much for the pics, Melody,

It's simply a divine ensemble. Fits you to a tee. I love the scalloping and flow of the material. You have such beautiful taste in style, colour and dress.

Be safe, well and happy
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: noleen111 on January 27, 2012, 10:19:06 AM
You look very beautiful.

I look like a woman and that dress is lovely....

I would love to wear a beautiful dress like that....
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: tekla on January 27, 2012, 10:45:43 AM
Stunning dress dear.  The earth would spin off it's axis and go careening though the universe if I ever wore anything that fancy.

And why settle for only one day?  I have a tiara (not as nice as yours, still...) and I keep it in my desk-drawer, so I can whip it out and put it on as needed.  When I slap that bitch on my head and tell them: "Because I'm the F-ing Princess, that's why!  Now, off with their heads!" - well you'd be amazed at how many arguments it stops dead in their tracks.
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Melody Maia on January 27, 2012, 01:53:35 PM
Quote from: tekla on January 27, 2012, 10:45:43 AM
Stunning dress dear.  The earth would spin off it's axis and go careening though the universe if I ever wore anything that fancy.

And why settle for only one day?  I have a tiara (not as nice as yours, still...) and I keep it in my desk-drawer, so I can whip it out and put it on as needed.  When I slap that bitch on my head and tell them: "Because I'm the F-ing Princess, that's why!  Now, off with their heads!" - well you'd be amazed at how many arguments it stops dead in their tracks.

LOL, yes, being a Princess was quite addictive. The attention was divine!
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Tazia of the Omineca on January 27, 2012, 03:53:30 PM
Melody I think you are rather pretty.
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Post by: Bridal Wish on January 28, 2012, 03:47:31 PM
You look like a model!! Except better because you look alive still! :D
Title: Re: Was a princess for a night
Post by: Jenny_B_Good on January 30, 2012, 05:01:46 AM
Well wishes and warmth for your surgery.
You're practically there anyway- ..... Just a little remodelling.... in all your womanhood glory

Love and Respect,

Jenny