(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1234.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fff413%2FTrinies%2F15_9_25.gif&hash=91aebe7ba6de40a033636454041cf6d1726730c9)...Am I the only one that is completely sexless until I get rid of this wiener thing!?
Nope.
I'm not, but can't say I blame you.
No.
I'm exactly the same.
:(
Well sometimes I meet "straight" a guy who doesn't mind being with me, not like a relationship, but sex, or something.
I usually am considered to be a girl, and I'm usually tossed around and stuff. I don't like to be touched there though. >_<
Quote from: Zylphia on January 29, 2012, 12:52:47 PM
I don't like to be touched there though. >_<
I don't like being touched there either... in fact I'm turned off instantly when I am touched there. Sucks for guys that like that part :P
Yeah I don't get turned off, but it is so uncomfortable for me.
I much prefer other parts of my body to be touched, neck, chest, shoulders.
Feels really good to me, but I am pretty ticklish everywhere. Heh.
Also guys that like that part can touch, but I tend to shy away and all that.
I never say never, but suffice to say I very much doubt I'll ever have sex with my body the way it is. Growing up, my dysphoria ensured that I was pretty much asexual, and I avoided relationships like the plague. I hated my body so much that I didn't want anyone else looking at it, much less touching it. Because of that, my feelings about things like that are completely underdeveloped for my age. I've never dated anyone, never kissed anyone, and never even had a crush on anyone. I'm only just now beginning to ask questions of my own sexuality that most people probably begin to consider during their early teens. And while it's quite possible that I'll meet someone in the next couple of years who's kind and patient enough to bear with the fact that I'm... really still emotionally just a kid when it comes to such things, it's much more likely that by the time I first have sex (if I ever do), I won't have... well... that down there anymore.
...which leaves me with the rather scary possibility of being completely new to relationships in my thirties. Eek. :'D
Being pre transition fully right now it doesn't really bother me, I'm still ok with my stuff considering the rest of my body matches for now. I have an extremely low sex drive anyways so it's almost a non issue, always been more of a cuddler.
However once I start trying to pass I don't plan on even dating if I can handle be single, until I can get SRS at least, I just can't see wanting to have anything to do with that part of me if I'm not trying to be a guy, it would probably just be a downer. I have pretty bad character judgment when dating with women as it is, pretty sure I'd just get into trouble with either gender if I tried during, so why bother? Of course I am a very bad single person, need companionship so we'll see how long that lasts.
It just seems kinda personally contradicting for me if I would want to use it at that point. Not saying I'd apply that to other people of course. Just my own feelings, which of course may change later, never know.
Nope. Before I was with my boyfriend who I enjoy sex with I was a sex worker. I definitely played a role but it made me great money. Since i've been transitioning I could definitely see myself continuing doing it but I don't think I will since i'm in a relationship.
For me the parts are reversed but the concept is the same: basically sexless until I get a weiner.
it's been a few years, miss the companionship tho, and a bit worried about meeting up with an old lady friend i have not seen in 15 years, don't know when we will get together, lots of worries if we get close... :-\
As I am the only one involved currently, it's few and far between since the start of HRT and a female libido. I know what gets me going, just need someone to turn the key.
Malachite, I am with you all the way. I wish and need something down there that I can get a hold of and handle. That would make me feel so good. Better yet if I could pee through it too.
Meh, I don't mind being touched there :P Just as long as it isn't too much (and they don't focus on it or anything)... and only touching...
I really just don't think about that part much. I'm ok with it... but it is just decoration :P