Between 3 and 5 years ago, my mother insisted that she be the one to tell one of my brother's.
When I asked her how he had reacted when she told him, she said, and I fuggin' quote,
"He said, "I never want to see that ->-bleeped-<-got again!"." Now I find out she never told him and
she left instructions with my youngest brother that he was not to be told until after her death.
Just ever so sad to hear/read that...
So much more to this but I guess you will know and so do I.
Try to forgive, people are just imperfect - yet so are we also.
Hug,
Axélle
Oh my, Heather, I cannot imagine the hurt you must be experiencing.
{{{{HUGS}}}}
Hugs Darling,
We will never know what was going through her mind. She also told you that she loved you. Hold onto the beauty and forgive the weakness. You are a fine woman and your Mum was proud of you.
Peace and Comfort My Sister
Cindy
My gosh heather. That has to hurt. You didn't do anything wrong. People are funny creatures. Try not to let them hurt you too much.
That was a spiteful thing to do to you Heather. I hope your brother has reacted well, or will react well, when told.
Big Hugs sis.
Karen.