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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: kjr15 on February 13, 2012, 07:18:57 PM

Title: Finding a date or relationship that's not fake
Post by: kjr15 on February 13, 2012, 07:18:57 PM
 ??? I don't understand all these fake sites out there claiming to be Transgender/intersexed dating/relationship friendly. There seems to be no such site. WTF???

All I want is someone in my life. I am healthy, handsome, athletic, stable and outgoing. I have goals in life and would like to share them with someone. Of course I know one reason why a man or woman doesn't want me, it's because of my height. I'm 5'4", 135 lbs (muscle). No one sees the sincerity and caring side of me.

Is anyone else experiencing this??? Does anyone care to be a friend to me and see where it goes? I'm NOT the pushy type whatsoever, I just want someone to love and love me. ???
Title: Re: Finding a date or relationship that's not fake
Post by: spacial on February 14, 2012, 02:36:50 AM
I haven't any experience of dating sites. While I also have no experience of dating agencies, I understand some are OK.

But I do, so understand how you feel about finding someone, genuine, honest and worth being with.
Title: Re: Finding a date or relationship that's not fake
Post by: JenJen2011 on February 14, 2012, 07:40:19 AM
Quote from: Beverley on February 14, 2012, 04:56:40 AM
Do not waste your time on dating sites. What hobbies do you have? What do you like to do in your spare time? Find groups of like minded people and go out and enjoy yourself with them and meet people. Lots of people. You will find someone who you share something with and that always helps to get a relationship going.

Beverley

+1

On my way to work yesterday, I heard on the radio about a club that hosts about 100 events per month just for singles. I think that would be a great club to join to meet people. Do a search for "events for singles" on google.

Don't worry. The right person for you will come along. But it's usually when you least expect it.

Good luck.
Title: Re: Finding a date or relationship that's not fake
Post by: spacial on February 14, 2012, 08:36:16 AM
Quote from: JenJen2011 on February 14, 2012, 07:40:19 AM


Don't worry. The right person for you will come along. But it's usually when you least expect it.

Good luck.

I'll emphasise that. It seems to be one of those things that work best when you try least.
Title: Re: Finding a date or relationship that's not fake
Post by: titsup on February 15, 2012, 03:19:16 AM
Dating sites are a rough way to find support and friendship. Sometimes for me I find it best not to try to hard to make friends. It is almost like friends develop when you just go about your business, being the best you can be for yourself.

Then of course there is how do you intend to advertise yourself and that can be a major issue right out the gate... consider that.