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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Stephe on February 27, 2012, 02:15:15 PM

Title: Are you happy?
Post by: Stephe on February 27, 2012, 02:15:15 PM
 This is a question I've wanted to throw out there, mainly to people who feel like they have "transitioned" i.e. past tense. People who have reached their main goal whatever that was. I've read several post-ops say they will never be at peace with their past or people posted other things saying they are still depressed etc.

  I will start it off saying, yes I am VERY happy with how things turned out. My main goal was to live and be treated as a woman.  I have come to terms with the fact I was born a transgendered person AND now believe there is nothing -wrong- with me being trans. I mostly pass unnoticed but I also know many people know my past where I live. I am accepted as just another woman now. I have had zero issue with using the bathroom that fits my gender for several years and honestly can't recall the last time I was misgendered by anyone.  Are they just humoring me?  I honestly don't care one way or the other, I just want to be treated as a woman, which was my goal. I may or may not have more surgery done but it won't be to resolve any sort of inner turmoil, I am at peace with my transgenderness and with who I am now.