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And Sarah, please don't belittle me with the quotations of "pastor." Using quotations is a trite or sarcastic way of addressing your beliefs that my job is an irony to my abilities. As a moderator, you could have answered it without questioning what I do for a living.
As a "Pastor" you should know better than to share what goes on in a counseling session, it makes no difference that your changing the names, it just isn't proper.
if forum admin or someone can close this thread I would appreciate it. It has run its course.