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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: vik2ray on April 13, 2012, 01:06:19 AM

Title: I don't care
Post by: vik2ray on April 13, 2012, 01:06:19 AM
Well hello everyone again :)
Things have been going the same as usual.
My parents caught me wearing male clothing outside to the shops and decided to make a huge deal of it.
After multiple insults and some rather unpleasant hand gestures directed at me by them.
The rant from my mother started, the usual calling me a "thing" and saying I should try to be girly.
My reply was simply "I don't care"
It was simple and pure.
I didnt care about my future as my mothers biased stereotypes where based on, I didnt care that I could be homeless, because I have freinds, I didnt care that I wouldn't have a family, because I know I will never be alone. and I don't care about my parents wishing to kick me out.
With that said. I intend to start T in the next two months. And I have no fear holding me back.
Just wanted to share the fact I'm out of my parents chains. :)
Title: Re: I don't care
Post by: tvc15 on April 13, 2012, 03:31:06 PM
Good on you for sticking up for yourself. Sounds like you're getting on the right track. Good luck with everything, man.
Title: Re: I don't care
Post by: Dane on April 13, 2012, 04:00:27 PM
This is great to hear dude. I remember the thread a while ago where you said you were having some trouble. Happy to hear you're gaining some power over your own life. Good luck, hope things continue on the upturn.
Title: Re: I don't care
Post by: vik2ray on April 13, 2012, 08:54:59 PM
Thanks guys, I guess I just got really tired of being stuck in a situation that causes me a lot of fear and mental anguish. Thanks for being there for me eveyone whols ever posted in my topics :)
Title: Re: I don't care
Post by: Felix on April 13, 2012, 11:58:07 PM
Oh my gosh I'm so glad to hear this. I was wondering how much longer you could deal with the abuse. Best of luck hanging on to yourself as you proceed.
Title: Re: I don't care
Post by: vik2ray on April 15, 2012, 03:56:54 AM
To add to my first post tomorow I am going to get the papers for my legal name change and get that sorted, get a post box for personal mail, and set up a debit account so I can get a proper binder and a few other items such as a packer. And on top of all that I am going to my old doctor to ask him to get me into rhe process and get my refferal to the endo. Right now im willing to go behind my parents backs and do whats right by me. Will update tomorow and let you know how it goes. :D
Title: Re: I don't care
Post by: Felix on September 14, 2012, 11:20:22 PM
So, um, forgive me if you've posted elsewhere and I didn't notice. I'm really not keeping up very well lately. How did it go?