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General Discussions => Beauty => Fashion => Topic started by: aniya on April 18, 2012, 02:52:21 AM

Title: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: aniya on April 18, 2012, 02:52:21 AM
So I went shoe shopping with my mom today (dressed as a boy) and I think she kind of has a feeling now that I'm transgender. I was telling her what shoes to get, at the same time I was telling her which heels I wanted and she would just say omg those are so tall, can you walk?! lol Hopefully she's opening up to the idea more!

OH and I got 3 pair of heels for $35!! Score!!
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: Cindy on April 18, 2012, 03:07:58 AM
Good post Aniya,

I think if Mum is buying you heels she probably has strong suspicion that you are TG, and if the avatar is you, I think she def knows.

Cindy
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: aniya on April 18, 2012, 03:34:26 AM
Thanks Cindy! The avatar is me, that's what I look like when I dress up! She's seen the pic and she smiled and said I looked like my aunt. hehe so hopefully she gets used to the idea.
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: MacKenzie on April 18, 2012, 03:36:17 AM

  Work them heels girlfriend!  :)
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: aniya on April 18, 2012, 04:16:25 AM
Quote from: MacKenzie on April 18, 2012, 03:36:17 AM
  Work them heels girlfriend!  :)

lol you know I will! Thanks girls :D
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: Cindy on April 18, 2012, 04:29:48 AM
You are very cute and your Mum is being fantastic.

Just a suggestion. Buy a rose or a nice flower, and give it too her with a little card saying. Thank You Mom,  from your loving daughter Aniya

Bet it melts hearts

Cindy,
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: aniya on April 18, 2012, 05:29:31 AM
Quote from: Cindy James on April 18, 2012, 04:29:48 AM
You are very cute and your Mum is being fantastic.

Just a suggestion. Buy a rose or a nice flower, and give it too her with a little card saying. Thank You Mom,  from your loving daughter Aniya

Cindy that is a good idea! I wonder how she'll react! I shall update you on the outcome! :)
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: justmeinoz on April 18, 2012, 05:36:22 AM
Lovely thought  Aniya.
3 pair for $35, brilliant.  A girl can never have too many shoes, it's a known scientific fact! ;D

Karen.
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: kelly_aus on April 18, 2012, 06:10:01 AM
Aniya, if you mum is buying you heels, she knows.. Or at least knows something is going on.. And 3 pairs for $35 is a great score!.. And as Karen said, a girl can never have enough shoes!
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: aniya on April 18, 2012, 06:50:00 AM
Thanks ladies for the posts :) I hope she does, I also don't want her to confuse me for a drag queen (we watch a lot of RuPauls Drag Race) and have her think it's just for fun.
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: Felix on April 18, 2012, 02:26:12 PM
Sounds like your mom cares about you. :)

Even if she thinks you dress just for fun, that can open the door to further conversation.
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: susanewing on April 21, 2012, 11:14:57 AM
She knows! How fun, she is a loving mom.
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: Miss.Tiffany on April 26, 2012, 11:50:12 PM
I wish i could someday go shoe shopping with my mom...
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: JayKyle on April 26, 2012, 11:54:42 PM
I went shoe shopping with my dad. We both got a pair of military grade combat boots that were brand new for under $100 for the 2 which is a steal ^^
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: aniya on April 27, 2012, 02:50:53 AM
Yaaay for shoe shopping with parents!

Quote from: Miss.Tiffany on April 26, 2012, 11:50:12 PM
I wish i could someday go shoe shopping with my mom...

Honey don't you worry! I'm sure one day you will get to do it! Never say never...even though I just typed it twice hehe :P
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: Floritine on May 25, 2012, 06:23:46 AM
Hi Aniya, you look fab, your mum already knows she has a daughter but she's just waiting for the mother daughter chat from you.
There is a clear difference between you and RuPauls Drag Race, you look so fem and there are plenty of gals that wish they had your looks...
Just remember N+1 rule the more the better

Cheers Tracy
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: aniya on May 25, 2012, 05:28:54 PM
Quote from: Floritine on May 25, 2012, 06:23:46 AM
Hi Aniya, you look fab, your mum already knows she has a daughter but she's just waiting for the mother daughter chat from you.
There is a clear difference between you and RuPauls Drag Race, you look so fem and there are plenty of gals that wish they had your looks...
Just remember N+1 rule the more the better

Cheers Tracy

Thank you so much Tracy! :)
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: Luana_Erika on October 09, 2013, 05:11:33 PM
You're so lucky!! I'd love to go shopping with mom  :angel:
Title: Re: Shoe shopping with my momma!
Post by: FrancisAnn on October 10, 2013, 09:45:38 PM
That is great, shopping for shoes with your mother. I wish I could have done that with my mother. She helped me paint my fingernails & toenails several times in early life playing girly dress up. That was great however we never went shopping together. She has since passed away.

To other girl friends if your mother is alive bring her into your life as close as you can. If MTF just tell her you want to be her complete daughter & you need her help & that you love her.