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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: Keri Allison on April 26, 2012, 01:55:17 PM

Title: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on April 26, 2012, 01:55:17 PM
It came in the mail. They're midnight blue American Apparel Cable Knit Over the Knee socks!

http://store.americanapparel.net/rsaskopkc.html 

I've yet to put them on, but I have a feeling this will be a slippery slope... I think I'll buy an outfit next so I can wear it during Halloween and then get murdered by my fraternity brothers. Yay.
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Jamiep on April 26, 2012, 02:36:29 PM
Hi Keri,

Good for you, we all have to start somewhere, nothing better than from the foundation up, that supports everything. You are young, when you can afford to purchase a fashion you don't necessarily have to buy online. I have bought all my female clothes in male mode in shops & department stores. Sales staff usually don't raise an eyebrow, for them it is a sale & commission. They don't have to know, it could be for any female in your family or SO. Rarely has it come up in conversation, & if it does I just say it is a gift for the aforementioned. Advantages to be in a store is to see, touch and feel the fashion and fabric, pattern, color and hold up to you for size (I do that). Size, you could ask if there is a change room to try on for fit.

Baby steps, on your journey. Good luck.
Hugs
Jamie
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on April 26, 2012, 02:45:24 PM
Thanks  :D

I have some friends who work at American Apparel, so I get a 50% discount. It's all high quality stuff, made in the USA, hip and classy, and my friends know which sizes I should get so I don't have to go out to get them haha.. livin' the good life. lols

Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Jamiep on April 26, 2012, 03:06:49 PM
Nice. livin' the good life for sure ;). I had a brief look via your link, nice products and reasonable prices.

Cheers

Jamie
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Lyric on April 26, 2012, 10:35:18 PM
I love American Apparel. The andro folks are big on it, too. They even sell unisex undies. I love the ads, too.
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: barbie on April 30, 2012, 04:36:44 PM
I have similar one made here in Korea. The price tag seems too high, as here I can purchase it at ca. $5 USD.

Yes. I like the feeling when wearing silky clothes. I feel like I become a true woman.

Barbie~~
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on May 01, 2012, 05:09:07 PM
Alright, so I tried them on and they're strange lols. They can easily be thigh highs if you have a garter belt, but otherwise, they slip down and don't really stay above the knee. Super comfy though :)

Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Jamiep on May 01, 2012, 09:41:47 PM
Keri,

I found they slip down as well, guess my legs aren't big enough.

Your item looks like nice texture to feel good.

Jamie
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on May 02, 2012, 01:06:58 AM
Quote from: Jamiep on May 01, 2012, 09:41:47 PM
Keri,

I found they slip down as well, guess my legs aren't big enough.

Your item looks like nice texture to feel good.

Jamie

You bought them too?! Nice :)
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: justmeinoz on May 02, 2012, 06:06:25 AM
Skiing is always more fun on a slippery slope! ;)

Congratulations on being you just that little bit more.

Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Kimberley on May 02, 2012, 08:54:24 AM
Congratulations on your first step. You must feel so good having now taken that step. Next is clothes then shoes and after that there is no stopping.
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on May 02, 2012, 12:06:12 PM
Quote from: Kimberley on May 02, 2012, 08:54:24 AM
Congratulations on your first step. You must feel so good having now taken that step. Next is clothes then shoes and after that there is no stopping.

I'm actually going to see a therapist...
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: barbie on May 02, 2012, 12:07:05 PM
Some of my knee stocks.

For fashion:

http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_070s.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_070s.jpg)
http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_067c.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_067c.jpg)
http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_064ss.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_064ss.jpg)

While mountain-climbing (no so much fashionable, but just comfortable):

http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071104_41s.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071104_41s.jpg)
http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20100924_021.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20100924_021.jpg)

Barbie~~
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: barbie on May 02, 2012, 12:13:34 PM
Quote from: Keri Allison on May 02, 2012, 12:06:12 PM
I'm actually going to see a therapist...

I consulted with a psychiatrist a few days ago, paid ca. $300 USD, and got an letter approving HRT. But the physician, who was the most famous for SRS in my country, requested me to come again with my wife. I just gave up.

The psychiatrist did not help so much. He said my job and career is a most important factor in approving HRT or SRS. The physician said that I can enjoy just crossdressing. That's it.

Barbie~~
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on May 02, 2012, 12:25:37 PM
Quote from: barbie on May 02, 2012, 12:13:34 PM
I consulted with a psychiatrist a few days ago, paid ca. $300 USD, and got an letter approving HRT. But the physician, who was the most famous for SRS in my country, requested me to come again with my wife. I just gave up.

The psychiatrist did not help so much. He said my job and career is a most important factor in approving HRT or SRS. The physician said that I can enjoy just crossdressing. That's it.

Barbie~~


Thing is, I don't want HRT or SRS. I just want what's best, and it's not always going the full ride. If I can only be happy with the full ride, then I'll do it. If it's not necessary, I won't. My goal for seeing the therapist is to help my depression, not to get a prescription for HRT.
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Jamiep on May 02, 2012, 01:16:21 PM
The physician request for you to bring your wife and if you are not married then that isn't going to happen. The physician isn't doing SRS on your wife. About you continue crossdressing, he seems rather flippant. If you are working then you are managing to save money for transition, it appears you are achieving that criteria. Otherwise both do not look helpful or taking you seriously. You do have the letter for HRT, so perhaps you can get yourself an Endocrinologist and get started on hormones. The rest can happen per your plan over the years when you can afford the procedures.
Don't give up.
Believe
Jamie
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on May 02, 2012, 02:23:13 PM
Quote from: barbie on May 02, 2012, 12:07:05 PM
Some of my knee stocks.

For fashion:

http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_070s.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_070s.jpg)
http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_067c.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_067c.jpg)
http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_064ss.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071111_064ss.jpg)

While mountain-climbing (no so much fashionable, but just comfortable):

http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071104_41s.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20071104_41s.jpg)
http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20100924_021.jpg (http://i943.photobucket.com/albums/ad278/barbie_pictures/20100924_021.jpg)

Barbie~~

Haha, both are cute and fashionable actually!
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Suzette on June 15, 2012, 05:51:43 PM
Now that you have started, the reasoning why women take so long to decide on what to buy becomes apparent. The final decision at times can become so hard and those sales really get to you. Constant watching to see if that favorite item comes on sale. Giggles, now you are ready to enjoy shopping like it was intended, a time sponge. 
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Keri Allison on June 21, 2012, 10:27:50 PM
Quote from: Suzette on June 15, 2012, 05:51:43 PM
Now that you have started, the reasoning why women take so long to decide on what to buy becomes apparent. The final decision at times can become so hard and those sales really get to you. Constant watching to see if that favorite item comes on sale. Giggles, now you are ready to enjoy shopping like it was intended, a time sponge.

Well, a lot of people say I dress well for a guy too so believe me, I've been familiar with the process :)
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: barbie on June 26, 2012, 04:22:11 PM
As I live in an island where people know each other too well, I am usually at dull mode. Several women at my age from the USA are visiting here. One of them brought to me the clothes and shoes I had ordered online from Amazon and Wal-mart. Two pairs of flat sandals for women. Two leggings and two skinny jeans. And she also gave me a book as a gift to me. The title is like "Living as a career woman", which should be a bestseller here.

I nearly gave up HRT. They will always recognize and remember me as a nice dad, whatever I look like.

Barbie~~
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Joann on July 10, 2012, 08:33:16 AM
I bought my first pair of ladies shorts last week too. just simple black shorts on the $3 rack. Light comfortable cool and if worn low on the hip no prob hanging out.dont need to fuss with a zipper either. just a quick lift and your set. strange that they made my girly legs look less girly.
use to Love walking around the mall in Daisy dukes ;)
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: abd789 on October 16, 2012, 07:14:44 AM
I remember when I first started ebaying, and I thought OMG! I can buy from home and NO ONE will know....

so I bought a few things....a couple weeks later I was at a coworkers house and hes like hey I was checking out your stuff you are selling on ebay....no biggie right...so he was looking at my feedback and there in full color was not only the things I was selling but also what I bought in my feedback profile! I had bought several 3x items and he knew my girlfriend was only a small girl

I was HORRIFIED ???

I didnt say a word and neither did he......

But after about 12 years of this I am getting more at ease with buying especially from thrift stores and even wal mart
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Kompany on October 16, 2012, 06:23:55 PM
The first time I bought an item(s) of woman's clothing was back in January of last year. I'd only just received my debit card and was eagerly online shopping! I remember being so scared my parent would find out I chose a specific time and date for the delivery when I knew he was guaranteed to be away, ended up costing quite a bit more, haha.

I guess it's kind of scary at first because it's like a step in to the unknown, even if you've worn some before, actually owning clothing from the opposite sex is a new feeling.

Good for you, anyway :)
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Lyric on October 18, 2012, 09:02:43 AM
Quote from: RitaChans on October 16, 2012, 07:14:44 AM...so he was looking at my feedback and there in full color was not only the things I was selling but also what I bought in my feedback profile! I had bought several 3x items and he knew my girlfriend was only a small girl

EBay allows sellers to have a separate account for buying, if you wish. I think that would be a good idea for you.
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: abd789 on October 23, 2012, 02:03:22 PM
yes, that would be a good idea ;D
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: andy_pap on November 09, 2012, 04:16:48 AM
i started with tights then started to buy off ebay i never touch makeup well may be the one time
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Shelly-Joe on November 26, 2012, 09:31:58 PM
OMG those are so sexy, thanks for the site and location I am buying me aa few pairs this week winter is upon me here and those will be cozy but they are sexy especailly in bordeaux I love that color......yes I am buying six pairs.
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: veritasinchains on December 11, 2012, 01:07:39 PM
Congratulations on buying your new clothes! I started too! I bought some costume stockings at first but was ready for real clothing. I was waiting till I was down to 250 before I shopped for new clothes. But a combination of new medication and finding boy clothes at a few fashionable shops(I couldn't shop them before and hadn't been able too in years) made me decide to go ahead and get a few things. I bought some boyshort panties and a pair of fleece shorts. They feel great. Especially the fleece shorts. Why don't they make more boyclothes out of this stuff?! That strengthened my resolve to buy more. I have since bought a pair of black leggings. I have a blue denim skirt that I think I look great in!:D I just bought a green and white striped v-neck shirt and a black skirt this weekend. I have some stockings and bought some more panties. One of the pair is a black with pink trim thong and a silver circle on the center front near the waistband that says cutie. They are so adorable. The downside is I am a bigger guy so low rise ladies underwear don't have much waist band. Not bragging about that by the way it is just annoying that they don't quite want to stay up...

I don't plan on buying more clothes for either gender for a while. I would hate to get a new favorite outfit and shrink out of it...

I wrote this while I was feeling: Masculine*flexing*
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: Jeanette Marie on December 11, 2012, 11:12:13 PM
I'm doing it too. I just bought a simple black cami from zappos. I did have to be careful since my kids and I share an account. I started another one so my purchase history won't be revealed to anyone but me.

I chose the cami so I could wear it under my dress shirt to work. I'm a little nervous about the sizing though and all the choices. I've heard clothing terms I've never heard of before.
Title: Re: I finally bought my first piece of women's clothing!
Post by: veritasinchains on December 12, 2012, 10:50:57 AM
I have worn panties two days in a row now. I feel good in them. I am looking forward to losing weight so I can build a full wardrobe of mixed gender clothing.