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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: Wild Flower on April 30, 2012, 09:47:22 PM

Title: I told my "ex" boyfriend I am probably a transsexual.
Post by: Wild Flower on April 30, 2012, 09:47:22 PM
Well, this is an ex, but we're going to be a relationship again. The reason we broke up was timing, so I went to my home state. I can't really say it's  a legit break up because we didn't say "we broken up". I didn't talk to him for months, since I was doing college in my state. He's always loved me... so I told him, "I think I am a transsexual". I knew him for a yr now. He was always kind to me in an odd way.

He told me it's okay, like it was no big deal, and in the same conversation he kind of propose to me for marriage. Like, "our state approve gay marriage, we'll be together forever".  He has a lot of good attributes (young, money, successful career, good heart)... we didn't talk about the tg stuff much.

I like him a lot, love him at one point, but I think it's time to tie the knot since now I know I can do no wrong with being a transgender. He's bisexual, so that could explain why he's open-minded to that.
Title: Re: I told my "ex" boyfriend I am probably a transsexual.
Post by: Kelly-087 on April 30, 2012, 10:22:59 PM
I'm glad he took it well. But..

I don't really think he understands if he mentioned gay marriage.
Title: Re: I told my "ex" boyfriend I am probably a transsexual.
Post by: SourCandy on April 30, 2012, 11:23:31 PM
Quote from: Kelly-087 on April 30, 2012, 10:22:59 PM
I'm glad he took it well. But..

I don't really think he understands if he mentioned gay marriage.

I wouldn't say that, I think "Gay" Marriage is what it would be if Wild Flower tied the knot before legally changing, As far as I understand it (Which means very little lolz), Either way, I'm happy you seem to have found the one. ^^ Good luck!
Title: Re: I told my "ex" boyfriend I am probably a transsexual.
Post by: Kelly-087 on May 01, 2012, 01:38:25 AM
Yeah. It would be.
I just hope he understand you're a woman, Wildflower :)
Title: Re: I told my "ex" boyfriend I am probably a transsexual.
Post by: Felix on May 01, 2012, 02:02:49 AM
I'm probably a transsexual too.

I hope you understand what you are getting into.
Title: Re: I told my "ex" boyfriend I am probably a transsexual.
Post by: Butterflyhugs on May 01, 2012, 07:51:09 AM
If it doesn't work out feel free to give him my number
Title: Re: I told my "ex" boyfriend I am probably a transsexual.
Post by: A on May 01, 2012, 05:58:02 PM
This sort of feels unhealthy... 3/4 "good attributes" you mentioned about him are "young, money, successful career". It all feels odd.

And he proposed to you in the same conversation that you came out to him? All that considering you hadn't spoken for a long time? I don't know... It sounds suspicious.

If you're sure of yourself, go on, but I had to point out the many bright red lights in your post. Maybe the situation isn't as negative in the reality as I perceive it in your post, after all.