Tomorow is my 3rd session with a therapist .... so far so good i guess but how do i bring up the topic of transition and trying to get on hrt as soon as posible?
You say so, and see what will be the response... then you'll have to take it from there... that's my personal experience.
You just bring it up... something perhaps along the lines of: "I've been doing some research and based on how I feel, I think I'm transgender."
Then wait for his/her response. :-\
I just had my 4th session. She knows I'm there to talk about hormones and transition but my last session was the first time we started to talk seriously about transition. Because it was towards the end of the session, we had to table it for next time but I can't wait.