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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 06:55:21 PM

Title: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 06:55:21 PM
ok so i came out completely to my mum and dad about a week ago. and yesterday my mother asked me what i use to look like i have a penis, so i proceded to explain what a packer was and how they are used. (weirdest conversation of my life) then she asked to see what mine looked like ( even more uncomfertrable)so since mine hasn't arrived yet i logged on to the home grown website and showed her the one i brought (i brought the 3.5inch jayjay). she looked at the screen and thought for a few seconds then turned to me and said "it looks bigger than your fathers"
i couldn't help but burst out laughing.

it was so funny i just had to share

i know it's stupid but has this happened to anyone else
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Stewie on May 24, 2012, 07:15:52 PM
LOL Sort of. I kept messing around with my mom telling her I wanted a packer and she asked what that was. She then said that it's whatever floats my boat!
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: conformer on May 24, 2012, 07:16:12 PM
I honestly lol'd after reading haha. That's cool you're mum was so chill about the whole packer thing.

I haven't brought it up to my parents simply because I feel that's a bit too personal. I mean, binders are one thing, but packers . . errr idk that just seems like it'd be weird to even bring up. My mother would assume I'm sexually active xD . I'd tell her if she asked about it though.
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 07:23:37 PM
conformer
that was only half the story she then questioned me as to if it would be noticeable when wearing it (cause some of my family don't know yet) and if it got erect. all i could do was give her the WTF face. cause she knows i'm not sexually active.
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Adio on May 24, 2012, 08:48:01 PM
LOL That would have been too awkward for me.  No way would I intentionally show my mom (or any family member) my packer.

Unfortunately my mom has seen it by accident.  Incredibly embarrassing haha
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Once-ler on May 24, 2012, 09:10:34 PM
xD!
That's really funny.
But a little embarrassing. xD

My mom flips out at me at any mention that I'm a boy.

But my dad buys me my chest binders. If I told him about packers, he'd probably laugh, and then ask me if I wanted one. xD
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: aleon515 on May 24, 2012, 09:24:18 PM
Quote from: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 06:55:21 PM
ok so i came out completely to my mum and dad about a week ago. and yesterday my mother asked me what i use to look like i have a penis, so i proceded to explain what a packer was and how they are used. (weirdest conversation of my life) then she asked to see what mine looked like ( even more uncomfertrable)so since mine hasn't arrived yet i logged on to the home grown website and showed her the one i brought (i brought the 3.5inch jayjay). she looked at the screen and thought for a few seconds then turned to me and said "it looks bigger than your fathers"
i couldn't help but burst out laughing.

it was so funny i just had to share

i know it's stupid but has this happened to anyone else


Justin, when your mom came around, she REALLY stepped up!  LOL!  :-)

--Jay Jay
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: =celestica= on May 24, 2012, 09:29:04 PM
Hahahaha
Your mother sounds pretty accepting (:
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: anibioman on May 24, 2012, 09:44:24 PM
when i asked my mom to order me a prosthetic she was like sure why not and my dad was like "why would he need one of those" i think he thought i was sexually active and i would be using it for sex. i also spoke to my school social worker about packers and prosthetic she is the coolest and nothing phases her.
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Elijah3291 on May 24, 2012, 10:22:24 PM
haha thats awesome!

I had a convo with my mom about packers once and it was really funny, she thinks they are hilarious and she always says "never in my life did I think i would have a conversation with you about rolled up socks and what size packer you prefer"
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Shang on May 24, 2012, 10:23:47 PM
XD Hah!  That's great. :3  It's a good response from a mom.

I've never had a conversation like that, but I also haven't come out yet.
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 11:11:11 PM
Quote from: Aeris on May 24, 2012, 09:29:04 PM
Hahahaha
Your mother sounds pretty accepting (:

she is but she still isn't sure about me starting testosterone
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 11:15:07 PM
Quote from: Panon on May 24, 2012, 09:10:34 PM
xD!
That's really funny.
But a little embarrassing. xD

My mom flips out at me at any mention that I'm a boy.

But my dad buys me my chest binders. If I told him about packers, he'd probably laugh, and then ask me if I wanted one. xD

what made it more embarrassing was that she stole my laptop and showed my dad (thank god he has accepted me and has a sense of humor) he laughed and said he didn't want his son circumcised
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Lee on May 25, 2012, 12:54:27 AM
That's really funny.  Glad your parents are cool with it.
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: Once-ler on May 25, 2012, 12:31:04 PM
Quote from: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 11:15:07 PM
what made it more embarrassing was that she stole my laptop and showed my dad (thank god he has accepted me and has a sense of humor) he laughed and said he didn't want his son circumcised
xDD
That makes me laugh. xD
It's great that your parents are cool with it. (and funny. x3 )
Title: Re: explaning what a packer is to mum
Post by: dalebert on May 25, 2012, 12:50:30 PM
Quote from: Justin 21 on May 24, 2012, 11:15:07 PM
...and said he didn't want his son circumcised

Can you give your dad a kudos from me?