Hello my name is Niko, iam 26 yo, small build and ever since i was young ive always wanted to be a woman. One of my life long dreams is to have breasts of my own, i guess to be honest i want to have large breasts, i have even thought oneday to get breast implants, but i understand that other things need to come first, was wondering if others feel this way, i mean is it normal? just seeking advice
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Hi Niko, :icon_wave:
Welcome to our little family. Over 7692 strong. That would be one heck of a family reunion.
Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams. Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.
But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another sister/brother/Andro/member. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)
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:) Hello to you all. I guess i do need to be brave, if i want to have breasts, i realy do want to change
Heya,
Transitioning is a major life altering decision to make. The purpose of it is to revert from male to female, or vice versa. Having breasts doesnt make you a woman. Sure, they are an overt sign of feminity and fertility but lots of women don't have breasts and are what is called "flat chested".
Are you intending to transition because you want to be a woman, or because you want big boobs? The two are vastly different.
Anyhoo, sorry for the lecture :) , welcome to Susans and I wish you all the best in whatever your final decision may be.
x
Hi Niko,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in and start talking.
Nothing wrong with the way you think. Certainly the desire to have breasts is quite normal, AND there are other things that have to be done beforehand. What Bexi said IS very relevant. It's one of the matters that is defined in your journey of transition, should it come to that.
In the meantime, relax and enjoy the experience.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine
thanx cath and bexi :) i enjoy being here too. Now to the question, ever since i was young ive always wanted to have big boobs of my own, this is something i realy realy want in my life. At the same time i have also desired to be a woman, it would complete me. iam slim and small so i know physically i have the potential to change and have the body of my dreams. So realy i want both, i if i had to pick i would settle for having big breasts alone, but i would much rather both. i know theres a few steps such as therapy and hormones before id consider getting breast implants, this is something i realy want in life, i see other women and feel sad why i cant be like them, all my life i have wanted this, and i dont want to give up on my dreams...
Quote from: Bexi on August 01, 2012, 08:23:29 AM
Heya,
Are you intending to transition because you want to be a woman, or because you want big boobs? The two are vastly different.
- i posted a response to this above :)
x
Its good that you intend to transition for more than just the bazongas :laugh: !
I was mainly concerned that maybe it was a fetishism rather than a proper genuine urge to transition - going through the years of therapy, hormones, trials and tribulations to achieve womanhood and ending up realising that you actually don't want to live this way and were happier as a guy would be extremely upsetting.
However, if it appears you do want to be a woman then I'll back you 100%! Firstly I'd arrange a meeting with a therapist. I know it seems the mundane response to most people who are intending to transition but it really is necessary to discuss your feelings with someone experienced in these matters and who can help you.
Its a long slow process, and hormones on their own probably won't give you the 'attributes' you desire but it will satisfy your dreams of being a woman.
All the best
X
Hi Niko,
And there is ABSOLUTLEY nothing wrong in what you desire. You are so open and honest about it, I know you will achieve it. Many here have had their dreams fulfilled, AND more.
This is a long journey, and I know you will succeed.
Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you've imagined. After all, happiness is not a destination; it's a way of life
Huggs
Catherine
hey there and welcome just like all the rest. youre not alone out there and if you ever want to talk about transitioning im sure both of us will have many questions. i admire your desires cuz mine are rather similar lol. take care!
thanks again everyone for your support. Yes iam honest i dont see why anyone should hide or be ashamed of their desires. i know the world is not a very accepting place for people transitioning, butwe have goals, some people might say we are extreme or that what we do is not right. I believe in life if you hold back from things that you realy believe in you will never achieve your dreams. And im not shamed to say that i want to be a sexy buxom babe with large breasts, i want to wear heels, bikinis, i want to model. one of my female friends once told me: you have a slim figure, nice ass, you just dont have boobs. She was joking about the boobs, but i see i have the body for it, small hands and feet, the perfect body shape to transition. If only she knew how much i want to have big boobs of my own. I believe in freedom for everyone, and i know that inside iam this woman, i have always been her, just not physcially, but oneday i will be, be like her...(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fhoopeduponline.com%2Fwp-content%2Fgallery%2Fjordan_carver%2Fjordan_carver6.jpg&hash=bfeb8cf91f27a2fe22649fcc96f7486f86256285)
Hi Niko, welcome to Susans! I live near Boston, we get folks from around the world here on the site. See you around, hugs, Devlyn