I had my first visit with a free gender counselor at the Trans Center. This is Albuquerque NM. Amazing that we have such resources in a city this size. I am blown away. (Also free groups-- rainbow friends which is basically anybody, ftm, spouses, teens, the mtf group has been meeting for years elsewhere).
Anyway he was very good and is a trans guy himself, so he knows his stuff. I am not trying to "get a letter" particularly. I am on this ride and feel like I have no idea where it is going to take me.
--Jay Jay