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Community Conversation => Crossdresser talk => Topic started by: switchZoEy on September 10, 2012, 05:39:47 AM

Title: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: switchZoEy on September 10, 2012, 05:39:47 AM
And it went surprisingly well this time!! We bought some new makeup and cute things! !   ;D it's so fantastic <3 I can be me!  Now if only the dysphoria would go away and I can stop being envious of girls skin... :( one thing at a time.

<3 Zoey
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: GendrKweer on September 10, 2012, 07:13:58 AM
Apart from hormones, from personal experience i can tell you the number 1 way to have better, more female skin, is never ever leave the house without a ton of sunscreen. Period. Cheers!
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: Padma on September 10, 2012, 07:15:17 AM
No sugar or alcohol helps the skin thing a lot too.
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: justmeinoz on September 10, 2012, 08:36:57 AM
Staying hydrated helps a lot too.
As for the Dysphoria,  I found it helped to get into the mindset that I was always a girl, just a really, really Butch looking one, but was really Femme underneath.  Sort of like transitioning from Male to Femme, not just Female.
Glad to hear your partner is learning to appreciate how great it is to live outside the square.
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: DavinaG on September 13, 2012, 04:52:54 PM
Quote from: switchZoEy on September 10, 2012, 05:39:47 AM
Now if only the dysphoria would go away and I can stop being envious of girls skin... :( one thing at a time.

<3 Zoey

Right there with you Zoey.  Baby steps.
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: Janelle on September 24, 2012, 12:46:59 PM
I know what you mean about being envious of women. Most guys look at a woman and go she looks so hot, and all I'm thinking is my god where did she get those shoes, or her hair is amazing!
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: justmeinoz on September 25, 2012, 05:51:44 AM
I hope things keep moving in the right direction for you.  If your wife can get into a sort of genderqueer mindset, then having a husband who understands her more than she ever expected should make for a great relationship.
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: switchZoEy on September 25, 2012, 05:58:33 AM
Janelle, i know right?! I do it at work all the time lol. Justmeinoz I think things are doing ok! And this morning my eyes look fantastic! ! A brown rimmel roll up eye liner And the le gold shimmer eye tattoo from maybeline.  Yum. Looking good and feeling good!  Some deadmau5 to get the blood flowing <3 gonna be a good day!

<3 Zoey  :-*
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: justmeinoz on September 25, 2012, 06:00:16 AM
Good to hear.  :)
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: switchZoEy on September 25, 2012, 06:02:11 AM
*hugs tight* hope you have a good day too!!

<3 Z
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: justmeinoz on September 25, 2012, 06:16:30 AM
Early night for me. It's 9-15 pm here, but can have a sleep in as I start late tomorrow. ;D
Title: Re: sat down with my partner about the genderfluid thing again...
Post by: switchZoEy on September 25, 2012, 06:17:45 AM
Awesome!! <3 sleep tight then!  :-*