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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: Kentrie on September 30, 2012, 11:25:42 PM

Title: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: Kentrie on September 30, 2012, 11:25:42 PM
Okay so like I posted before about the problems with the three girls I found a way to convince everyone I'm a boy. They called me "she" at the lunch table again but I ignored them. In my class everyone thought I was a girl and kept calling me she so I took a pic of me wearing my packer which is 3 1/2 inches and I showed the ones in my class and they all looked and was like "Holy cow you are a guy" I reckon that worked because of how small it is and they don't make realistic dildos that small and I made it look like I had an erection so that problem is pretty much solved except some guys in different grades and classes didn't think I was a guy because I was too skinny. But that's BS because there's a 20 year old guy there that's about 5'1 and he's as skinny and small shouldered as I am. Actually we have the same body shape because I was lucky enough to have "The butt of a 12 year old boy" And no curves and when I bind my chest with an ace bandage my chest is so small that it flattens completely out. The only problem is my complete lack of facial hair. Does anyone have any ideas how to get facial hair or appear to have a little facial hair pre-t? Mostly everyone is convinced I'm a boy and they pretty much  ALL stopped calling me "she" and switched to "he" but if I could show I at least had a tiny bit of facial hair maybe I could completely convince them. The teacher doesn't really address me with pronouns as he saw me showing the whole class my unit but I'm paranoid about when he has to because he'll probably say she and I'll get pissed. Another reason that helped people know I'm a guy is that my friend Larry and his brother Sam has been telling people "No, he's a guy" and stuff like that. But I really need some help making my face appear more masculine as far as facial hair grows.
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: wheat thins are delicious on October 01, 2012, 12:21:14 AM
Quote from: Kentrie on September 30, 2012, 11:25:42 PM
Okay so like I posted before about the problems with the three girls I found a way to convince everyone I'm a boy. They called me "she" at the lunch table again but I ignored them. In my class everyone thought I was a girl and kept calling me she so I took a pic of me wearing my packer which is 3 1/2 inches and I showed the ones in my class and they all looked and was like "Holy cow you are a guy" I reckon that worked because of how small it is and they don't make realistic dildos that small and I made it look like I had an erection so that problem is pretty much solved except some guys in different grades and classes didn't think I was a guy because I was too skinny. But that's BS because there's a 20 year old guy there that's about 5'1 and he's as skinny and small shouldered as I am. Actually we have the same body shape because I was lucky enough to have "The butt of a 12 year old boy" And no curves and when I bind my chest with an ace bandage my chest is so small that it flattens completely out. The only problem is my complete lack of facial hair. Does anyone have any ideas how to get facial hair or appear to have a little facial hair pre-t? Mostly everyone is convinced I'm a boy and they pretty much  ALL stopped calling me "she" and switched to "he" but if I could show I at least had a tiny bit of facial hair maybe I could completely convince them. The teacher doesn't really address me with pronouns as he saw me showing the whole class my unit but I'm paranoid about when he has to because he'll probably say she and I'll get pissed. Another reason that helped people know I'm a guy is that my friend Larry and his brother Sam has been telling people "No, he's a guy" and stuff like that. But I really need some help making my face appear more masculine as far as facial hair grows.

No way to make fake facial hair that doesn't look fake.  You shouldn't bind with ace bandages.  If your breasts are as small as you make them out to be you could binder with the waist part of a pair of control top panty hose. http://www.ftmguide.org/binding.html#hose (http://www.ftmguide.org/binding.html#hose)
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: wrabbit on October 01, 2012, 01:58:44 AM
i think if you start shaving, some hair will start to grow thicker. Im not exactly sure how shaving works, i've yet to try it out myself.
good luck! and omg thats ballsy even for a cisgender guy to do! dont be whipping it out, yo!
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: wheat thins are delicious on October 01, 2012, 08:35:39 AM
Quote from: wrabbit on October 01, 2012, 01:58:44 AM
i think if you start shaving, some hair will start to grow thicker.

That's an old wives tale unfortunately. 
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: jerr on October 01, 2012, 08:39:37 AM
try applying creams for eczema that contain clobetasol propionate. try asking for them at pharmacies. these creams contain corticosteroids so you have to be careful not to overdose, they're for skin conditions but i tried it out myself and i can see dark hairs starting to grow on my face, just put the cream on wherever you want hair to grow everynight and put cling wrap on the area, the cling wrap helps in the absorption of the corticosteroids.
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: aleon515 on October 01, 2012, 05:47:34 PM
If you are really small, you could wear an underarmour (heat guard, I think) shirt underneath your shirt. You can even do a couple other layers-- for instance underarmour shirt, button-down shirt or underarmour shirt, t-shirt, zipper sweatshirt. Not sure what the weather is there.

BTW, you can substitute underarmour for any kind of compression shirt. Muscle shirts also give a bit of compression too.

I'd be careful with any prescription stuff. Of course in the US you can't buy it, but I know in the UK you could.


--Jay J
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: Justin 21 on October 01, 2012, 07:55:29 PM
Hahaha when in doubt whip it out :D
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: aleon515 on October 01, 2012, 11:56:41 PM
Quote from: Justin 21 on October 01, 2012, 07:55:29 PM
Hahaha when in doubt whip it out :D

It would be quite a conversation stopper!

--Jay J
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: JohnAlex on October 02, 2012, 10:36:07 AM
I don't know how to hep you with the facial hair, but I do have a different idea.
My younger sister's straight guy friend is 21 years old, but he was telling me how he's only just now starting to see some dark hairs on his face. and the reason is because for some reason he is very physically developmentally behind. He said when he was in 10 grade, he looked like a 12 year old and hadn't hit puberty.  So his mom had taken him to an endocrinologist and they gave him a hormone shot to activate the hormone producing gland to force him to start puberty.

I found this story very interesting and thought to pack it away when/if I ever need to give someone an excuse for why I'm 21 and don't have facial hair yet.
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: sneakersjay on October 02, 2012, 06:35:17 PM
Def shave the peach fuzz, and yeah, some guys start puberty late.  And i've had lower surgery but still pack in certain situations where i think people will be checking out my package.


Jay
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: aleon515 on October 02, 2012, 10:08:19 PM
I've heard that even though it will not make your fuzz darker, *having* fuzz tends to be read as female. So that shaving it can reduce that-- of course presupposes that you would get looked at that closely to figure it out.

--Jay J
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: Sly on October 02, 2012, 10:34:02 PM
I'd recommend shaving most of your peach fuzz.  It's a gender indicator most people don't really think about, but having it makes your face look softer and rounder.

Try leaving a little fuzz under your ears/sideburn area, then use mascara to make it darker.  Be really careful with it though, if you don't use it super delicately then it's really dark and way too obvious.
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: wheat thins are delicious on October 02, 2012, 10:38:27 PM
Quote from: Sly on October 02, 2012, 10:34:02 PM
Try leaving a little fuzz under your ears/sideburn area, then use mascara to make it darker.  Be really careful with it though, if you don't use it super delicately then it's really dark and way too obvious.

I would advise against the mascara unless only for photo taking purposes, trying to wear it to school will more than likely end in extreme failure as it will just get smeared and rubbed off and that will be more obvious than lack of facial hair.
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: Sly on October 02, 2012, 10:43:42 PM
Quote from: Andy8715 on October 02, 2012, 10:38:27 PM
I would advise against the mascara unless only for photo taking purposes, trying to wear it to school will more than likely end in extreme failure as it will just get smeared and rubbed off and that will be more obvious than lack of facial hair.
If you just use a little bit and smudge it right away, it looks kind of like beard shadow as long as no one looks too closely...
Title: Re: Found A Way For Everyone At School To Call Me "He"
Post by: wheat thins are delicious on October 02, 2012, 10:50:39 PM
I don't think it's worth the risk if he wants to effectively blend in as male at school.  Raises too many question if someone notices.