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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Male to female transsexual talk (MTF) => Topic started by: jainie marlena on October 08, 2012, 10:50:05 PM

Title: How would you feel if..?
Post by: jainie marlena on October 08, 2012, 10:50:05 PM
How would you feel if someone posted a picture of you on their facebook from the hips up and under it it said, "Leave that alone ladies that is mine. Transgender way2go, tits on top dick on bottom, no carpet munching for me."?
Title: Re: How would you feel if..?
Post by: Annah on October 08, 2012, 10:53:40 PM
i would find out where this person lives, drive there, and forget about the commandment "love your neighbor as yourself" with a baseball bat to his car.

This is why I do not advertise I am transgender on facebook and that is why I do not add some guy as a friend when 1. I don't know him and 2. Most of his "friends" are transgender women.
Title: Re: How would you feel if..?
Post by: twit on October 08, 2012, 10:54:58 PM
I'd be pretty pissed.
Title: Re: How would you feel if..?
Post by: tekla on October 08, 2012, 10:59:41 PM
I'd feel my Facebook friending requirements needed some work.
Title: Re: How would you feel if..?
Post by: ~RoadToTrista~ on October 08, 2012, 11:00:27 PM
I would be weirded out and confused at first, then probably mad. Regardless of who it was, I'd feel that it was very disrespectful to talk about my body like that, in fact it's disrespectful to talk about anyone else's body like that. -.-
Title: Re: How would you feel if..?
Post by: jainie marlena on October 08, 2012, 11:11:50 PM
it was a bi curious woman that some people set me up with and yes it pissed me off. She pulled down the picture after I left her house. I liked the picture though and reloaded it to my facebook. People act like they have no idea how to treat us I'm starting to see.
Title: Re: How would you feel if..?
Post by: Nina Podolskaya on October 09, 2012, 02:01:58 AM
you should change your privacity setting,don't let strangers see ur profile :(
Title: Re: How would you feel if..?
Post by: jainie marlena on October 09, 2012, 02:59:34 AM
Never had trouble with strangers only people I know seem to trouble me. It is public for a reason. The person took the picture of me and posted it thinking that I would be okay with what she said. everyone but me thought it was okay. I quote "Did you see what she wrote?""She really likes you" That is the point. No one knows how to treat me so every thing is bass ackwards. They think the bad thing is good and the good thing is bad. My block list is filled with people that I know.

Strangers have never said or done anything to me. the people that I know have said and done more wrong to me then I can believe but they thought it was what I wanted or they would not have done it. Her intentions were good but she missed the point. I'm a woman not a piece of meat to satisfy her bi curiosity.

I was set up with this person because I'm between genders and they thought I would like someone that likes both male and females, yet the comment she made sounds like something that would have been said years ago by a man degrading a woman. I'm not hurt by it just amazed that people can't see the wrong in it. we see the wrong but they don't. it was cute to them. They thought I liked it.
I quote,"Glad that you found someone mom you deserve it." was posted by her kid just under what she wrote about me.