After 18 years of marriage, 2 kids and a lot of time and confusion, I am getting divorced. as much as I hate to say it, and as many other reasons and random occurrences going on, I believe my transvestism to be at the bottom of it. I have been emotionally disconnected from my wife for a couple years by now and infidelity has randomly occurred on both sides. It was to a point where I was supporting her live in boyfriend for a total of 4 months as I recovered from a shattered heel surgery sustained while in taekwondo with my boy. The last month in my home we had decided to live in separate rooms and "open" the marriage. I met someone to bring around, she was just to be a friend with benefits, and our first conversations were concerning not ever having a commitment, ( She is also recently divorced), and not dealing with relationships. Well as these things go, my wife's jealousy took over and a vodka induced all out assault took place leaving me with a black eye and a shattered life. But all is not lost my friends! That was just over two months ago and Cherie and I are getting along famously, she loves my crossdressing and all out attitude on life. I am freely expressing myself, drinking less, (and not to dull my pain or urges). It's amazing what a little support and full honesty can do for your psyche! We are getting an apartment November 1st and it seems as if I have finally found the friend that I needed. Don't get me wrong, I still love my wife, but we will all be better people in the end. Thanx for reading and have a great day!
Pansy
Good for you. Sounds like you both were smart and got the hell out of that caustic relationship. Some people refuse to do this and live miserable lives.
Thanx, I have a much calmer situation right now, tho my living conditions and finances are suffering, but the personal stress has all but left.
I love your attitude! It seems so bright and happy. Congrats on being able to move on with your life.
Awwwww, Thanx! I've always believed that a positive attitude will bring positive results, but spent too long walking on eggshells. None more tho!