So I moved back up to Northern NV to have support of some of my friends during my transition. The downside of this is the fact of the VERY smallholders community here.
Anywho, I found an actual local support group today...after nearly a year of looking. It probaly would have been better to find a year ago befor I started HRT, but I'm happy to final have something.
If anyone wants contact info I can try to put you in touch with the coordinator.