So a few weeks ago I met a guy through OKCupuid; I put that I'm Trans on my profile so he knew from the beginning. Anywho a week and a half later we started dating and he said from the start that my being Trans didn't phase him at all. Friday we were talking about it and I told him how much it meant that it didn't phase him. His response? "When I look at you I don't see it. I know it exists, but I don't see it when I look at you." Absolutely...amazing! :-D
Aww! Very cool!
Congratulations on finding someone awesome!
I actually told the guy I'm seeing something very similar last night. He worries that he does not pass, but all I see is a handsome man, nothing feminine about him.
Thank you! He's a great guy and he's been great with it. He's actually saving up his vacation to spend the 1st week after my Top Surgery with me in May :-)
It's hard for us sometimes because we've spent forever being uncomfortable in our bodies and feeling like we have to PROVE we're male so when a partner just accepts it/gets it; it takes us by surprise at first. That's awesome for you and your guy! Glad he has you!