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General Discussions => General discussions => ARGHHH! => Topic started by: Medusa on November 08, 2012, 09:09:08 AM

Title: I want to start again
Post by: Medusa on November 08, 2012, 09:09:08 AM
I want to start again   :icon_cry2:
I just have a feeling that I do everything too late  :'(
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Beverly on November 08, 2012, 09:10:45 AM
Start what again?
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Medusa on November 08, 2012, 09:26:51 AM
Everything, live again, born now
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Beverly on November 08, 2012, 09:36:13 AM
Ah...

Unfortunately you only get one go at it. What is wrong? Why are you feeling so down?
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Medusa on November 08, 2012, 09:50:50 AM
I don't know, it's everything together
I think most of it will be good tomorrow, or maybe not, who knows
I just need to say it to someone who won't reply me that he has everything much worse than me, and I should be happy with my strange trans life
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: spacial on November 08, 2012, 10:13:55 AM
Big hugs Medusa. Know so well how you feel.

Hate that response as well which besides being crass is also patently inaccurate.
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Beverly on November 08, 2012, 10:14:23 AM
Quote from: Medusa on November 08, 2012, 09:50:50 AM
I don't know, it's everything together
I think most of it will be good tomorrow, or maybe not, who knows

I am sure that tomorrow will be better. Everyone has bad days and you are no different. I hate it when it happens and sometimes it is triggered by the silliest thing and then I get mad with myself for being upset so easily.

I guess that part of the problem is that we are now much more susceptible to emotions than we ever were before. When an emotional event occurs we just do not know how to handle it. GG's have had a life time of practice that we lack.

Tomorrow will be better. Here, have some hugs ....  :icon_hug: :icon_hug:


Quote from: Medusa on November 08, 2012, 09:50:50 AMI just need to say it to someone who won't reply me that he has everything much worse than me, and I should be happy with my strange trans life

The only person who ever did say something like that to me had just been diagnosed with a terminal disease. In his case, I let it pass.....


Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Laura91 on November 08, 2012, 12:03:54 PM
Quote from: Medusa on November 08, 2012, 09:09:08 AM
I want to start again 

I've felt this way before but unfortunately, we can't do that. We all just need to keep going. You can do it. Try not to let it get you down.
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Beverly on November 09, 2012, 02:15:46 AM
Hi Medusa - how are you feeling today?
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Cindy on November 09, 2012, 02:27:35 AM
Hugs Medusa.

I think we all know what you mean.

Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Medusa on November 09, 2012, 02:48:45 AM
Today I feel neutral, I mostly wake up with free head, what was, was, just a dreamy photos

But today my gf cried at morning  :'(  she just say, that she has a dream and missing something but didn't say what  :(
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Beverly on November 09, 2012, 02:52:54 AM
Well, gloomy to neutral is a BIG improvement, but I have an idea that might work. Let us try my patented "happy button"

Press here ---->> (*) <<---- until you feel happy

I am sure it will work just fine......  :D
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Medusa on November 09, 2012, 03:11:49 AM
Quote from: bev2 on November 09, 2012, 02:52:54 AM
Press here ---->> (*) <<---- until you feel happy

I am sure it will work just fine......  :D
Good one  ;D
Title: Re: I want to start again
Post by: Beverly on November 09, 2012, 03:26:31 AM
:D

Works every time......