Well I'm out, live right on long island, specifically in suffolk but thats as specific as I'll get :P. Is there anyone else out there who also lives on the island because honestly I don't know anyone and would like to meet a few people at least!
Trans Solidarity Project (http://transsolidarity.org/resource/supportgroups.html)
A Guide for Students, Professionals and Families Listing
Support Services in the New York Metropolitan Area (http://www.uft.org/files/attachments/guidance-resource-directory-09-10.pdf)
Maybe this might help.