Hi all
I haven't been on susans in a long time, due to me like de-transitioning.
Basically after lots of thought and therapy sessions etc I have started to go back to being a boy.
I was just wondering on what your guys opinion was on me so far, I have been off oestrogen for about month and a half.
This is my latest picture of me, it's my most boyish one so far, every now and then I hear people saying is that a boy or a girl, so I know I'm not passing as a boy 100%.
(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1226.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fee406%2Frexaura%2Fblackandwhite.jpg&hash=5155585760708e4d96ea94bac5be5eec5b60da9b)
Also what were the first changed you got on T as I'm guessing my body is now similar to yours after being on oestrogen for a year.
Thank you :)
first change for me where that I felt restless like I wanted to work out and do alot. generally it where emotion changes who where first, then I got more strenght and around 3 weeks my voice started to change, I couldn't hear it but I felt it.
I'm not on T yet, but there's a very detailed post about changes and what time they occured on this thread: https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,129743.msg1030613.html#msg1030613 (https://www.susans.org/forums/index.php/topic,129743.msg1030613.html#msg1030613)
It's the last post at the moment, on page 3.
How long were you on hormones for?
Sorry, but you are still a girl. I think it's the lips. Quite lovely and feminine.
You will have a hard time going back to male.
Randi
Quote from: Erin H on November 18, 2012, 04:45:53 PM
Basically after lots of thought and therapy sessions etc I have started to go back to being a boy.
I was just wondering on what your guys opinion was on me so far, I have been off oestrogen for about month and a half.
You look like a boy to me. Thin framed glasses will always feminize the face as well though. If anything, you just look a bit flamboyant.
Can you grow facial hair?
Quote from: TessaM on November 18, 2012, 06:53:09 PM
May I ask why your detransitioning?
yeah sure, basically I have come to the conclusion that I am a boy but leaning to the andro side of things. Transitioning wasn't really the right thing for but it helped me find who I AM :D
Quote from: wheat thins are delicious on November 18, 2012, 07:01:16 PM
How long were you on hormones for?
I was on oestrogen for 1 year, and I was not on any anti-androgen.
Quote from: KyleXX on November 20, 2012, 03:42:11 AM
Can you grow facial hair?
I started the oestrogen before any of my natural facial hair developed, but I have noticed it is starting to come through now that I'm not on hormones.
Quote from: Randi on November 19, 2012, 11:44:34 PM
Sorry, but you are still a girl. I think it's the lips. Quite lovely and feminine.
Randi
its kinda mean telling someone whatever gender they are, specially on a place like susan.
we can discuss look, roles, and everything, but not our gender-identety, its up to each person to know.
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Erin:
your face is rather androgyne-femenine, like mine so I bet your thing on passing for a guy also would depend alot on your voice and abilaty to show off your cheast or mussle (I pass 100% without a shirt and when I speak but if I have a big coat and dont talk somepeople once in a while mistakes me)
Facial hair would diffently help also.
I would say that you pass as an older teenaged male, but maybe some more masculine/darker glasses might help. You kind of look like a guy I used to know.
Quote from: Jayboicurtis on November 20, 2012, 12:40:37 AM
You look like a boy to me. Thin framed glasses will always feminize the face as well though. If anything, you just look a bit flamboyant.
This.
You look androgynous, but on the male side. If you wore plain, frameless glasses, you would look like a younger version of one of my teachers.(He is quite handsome and young, so I mean it as a compliment :>)
You look like a young David Tennant to me. Like, very young, haha. You definitely look male to me.