hello my name is Ayden Jasper Welshans...aka AJ. I'm ftm 28 yrs old live in small town in hickville pa...im new here n very confusedd how this site works....i have ben tryn 2 navigate n find things n it tells me im not allowed in the group or w/e...how i can edit my profile...but neways....im a fun lovin guy hate drama just lookin for friends as well as support bc ive put off my transition ue 2 a ifficult livn sitution past 3 yrs so its rlly ben gettn xtremly hard 2 deal. my gf/wife is awesome but everyone else calln me my birthname n girl just gets 2 me n makes me sick 2 my stomach...
So i joind here 2 hopefully find some friends who undderstans n can relate cuz my gf hsa difficult timre tryin 2 xplain 2 ppl who i am n 4 them 2 respec it or not mock me.. sayin AYDEN THEN TURNIN ROUN N LUGHN AT ME AS THEY SAY IT. rlly hurts or if my gf gets ina fight w her friends they call me a he/she wanab it n that i should ddie or kill myself im a frwak of natre kina thing.....so yea thats all ima say nething else u wanna know sk me ima open book..
Welcome AJ!
ty wats ur name n how r u?
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Hi AJ, welcome from Boston! We know how you feel trying to gain acceptance. You won't have to endure that here, acceptance is part of being a member. You are who you are, and we won't question that. Glad you found us, hugs, Devlyn
Quote from: aj7 on December 01, 2012, 03:59:03 PM
ty wats ur name n how r u?
Hi AJ. I'm ok thanks. I don't have my 'man' name yet, as I am very new to this, but you can call me DTS for now, until I choose a name.
AJ, welcome from southern California.
You will be able to modify your profile and use the personal messaging system after 15 posts. Hang tight, you are almost halfway there.
Were have an active FtM community here. Make yourself known.
Quote from: DeeperThanSwords on December 01, 2012, 05:50:44 PM
Hi AJ. I'm ok thanks. I don't have my 'man' name yet, as I am very new to this, but you can call me DTS for now, until I choose a name.
cool well ill call ya D if thats ok w u....to give some help or insite on a name wat nationality r u...u can chose a name base on ur nationality...or even peronality...take ayden for xample.. it means lil fire. ima cool uy but dnt piss me off ill turn into fire lol.
Quote from: Jamie D on December 02, 2012, 04:19:45 AM
AJ, welcome from southern California.
You will be able to modify your profile and use the personal messaging system after 15 posts. Hang tight, you are almost halfway there.
Were have an active FtM community here. Make yourself known.
sweet thanx jamie cuz i was gettn frustrated like well if i cnt o nethng bherre ill look elsewere for a place 2 go n lauras is out bc ofa bad xperience in the past w them so yea thanx
Hi AJ and welcome.
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just woul like to thank everyone for the warm welcomes n avicew ive gotten so far
Hi AJ, sorry you're having problems with people being rude...but glad you have a good support system with your wife!
Quote from: aj7 on December 02, 2012, 04:37:58 AM
sweet thanx jamie cuz i was gettn frustrated like well if i cnt o nethng bherre ill look elsewere for a place 2 go n lauras is out bc ofa bad xperience in the past w them so yea thanx
AJ, you are just about there. If you need help changing your profile when you get to 15, just shoot me a PM (personal message) and I will walk you through it.
Hey AJ!
My names Elizabeth and I'm knew to this as well. I'm the girlfriend of an ftm so I'm at the other end of the stick. I suppose it's not easy for us to open up about something that not a lot of people understand. The world is a cruel place sometimes, but then you have awesome people who make it amazing lol. And you have the support of your girlfriend. I'm sorry about those people saying cruel things, and maybe your girlfriend should rethink her own support systems if they can't accept the man she loves.
Because my boyfriend is pre everything and this is only the beginning, I haven't told my family or friends yet, just as he hasn't told many people either. But as the time approaches it becomes scarier. And I commend your girlfriend for having the guts to do so and stand her ground. In the end be proud of who you are and how far you've come, and always remember you have your girlfriends support, which is much more important than that of her friends.
People come and go in our lives, but once we find that love, it lasts forever!
I doubt I helped much lol, but my overall purpose was to say welcome! And I'm here to talk anytime!