Hi, my name is Jane and I've been scouring the internet for a suitable place I thought would be good for discussing my relationship with my boyfriend who is 13 months MTF.
We met on a dating website about a month ago; his profile said he was trans and I've only ever dated men, but I found him very attractive and also not "weird" like a lot of people on dating websites. From the very first date, we got along very well and since then we have spent a LOT of time together.
Everything emotionally and romantically is great! We go on really fun dates and we make each other laugh hysterically. We're very attracted to each other and can talk about anything and everything.
However, we have a lot of hurdles we have to work out, like bedroom issues and him coming out. I figured it would be nice to have a place to go to talk about these kind of things with because I don't know anyone personally I can talk to who has had this kind of experience.
Thanks for reading! Please feel free to shoot me a PM if you're in my shoes or you have some pointers; it's good to talk.
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Hi, Jane. Welcome from southern California.
We have a "Significant Others " board to discuss the sorts of issue you will run into. Best of luck to you and boyfriend/girlfriend.
You should urge your significant other to join as well. We really are a very nice community here.
Hi Jane,
A big Aussie welcome to Susan's family. It's good of you to drop in and say "Hi". Hope you like it here, and you stay for a while.
There is a mountain of information, resources and friendship waiting for you here, you just need to jump in start talking and ask any question you like. You're quite safe here and we are very accepting.
You'll be pleased to know you are not alone. We've even set a special place for real heroes like yourself. in the SO (Significant Others ) section. I believe there is a lot to learn and share there. I say heroes, because I believe you people show a strength and determination of character to push through some amazing boundaries to achieve a relationship that is unique. If that's not the hallmark of a hero, I don't know what is.
Looking forward to hearing more of your story in time to come, but in the meantime, be safe, well and happy.
Lotsa huggs
Catherine