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Title: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Lucy on May 23, 2007, 07:45:33 AM
I know that i have managed to upset some of u and more than likely bore the others. I am just a british girl in trouble looking 4 a guiding hand. I keep a blog so that others in my situation can learn from my mistakes and thats about as much help as i can b. Acsept for welcomes and encouragment. As the same as many of you i have few experiences to share, stories to tell. So what i am trying to say is a big sorry & appologise 4 any up set i have caused. Susans place is a friendly community which i feel i have let down.

XXX Lucy 
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Laura Elizabeth Jones on May 23, 2007, 08:20:37 AM
Hey there, Lucy  :icon_hug:

In what way do you feel that you have let everyone down? Let it out, hon.

Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Robyn on May 23, 2007, 08:49:53 AM
Ah, Lucy, I'm sure we all disappoint someone sometime.  Quite often it's ourselves we disappoint.

HUGZ!!!!!!

Robyn
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Lucy on May 23, 2007, 08:54:08 AM
LEJ it has come to my attention that most people here have a lot of time to read throu posts and give meaning full lenthy discuions on there experiences. I have to do 90% of my surfing from a mobile phone. I can not read all the posts, i do try & i can not offer advice cus im new to this world as well. I feel that people think im a joke & waist of time. I am trying to b helpfull but cant allways empasize cus i dont understand. I am traped in a male body with no hope of being me. If i am waisting every ones time i might as well go... And fight this alone.
I try and see the good in every one no mater what there situation and by doing so feel like i may have up set quite a few people.
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: rhondabythebay on May 23, 2007, 12:33:24 PM
Lucy,

Don't let it get to you. I don't feel you have let people down. You are doing what you can to help. What can people expect?

I think we all need to support and comfort each other as we are able. It is everyone's personal experiences that make Susan's the diverse and helpful place it is.

Hugs and Love,

Rhonda
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: cindianna_jones on May 23, 2007, 12:42:43 PM
Huh?  Lucy, get over it.  Don't worry doll!  I can't see where you have let down ANYONE here or offended them.  That self image thing... you need to not worry.

Cindi
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Laura Elizabeth Jones on May 23, 2007, 01:34:35 PM
Quote from: Lucy on May 23, 2007, 08:54:08 AM
LEJ it has come to my attention that most people here have a lot of time to read throu posts and give meaning full lenthy discuions on there experiences. I have to do 90% of my surfing from a mobile phone. I can not read all the posts, i do try & i can not offer advice cus im new to this world as well. I feel that people think im a joke & waist of time. I am trying to b helpfull but cant allways empasize cus i dont understand. I am traped in a male body with no hope of being me. If i am waisting every ones time i might as well go... And fight this alone.
I try and see the good in every one no mater what there situation and by doing so feel like i may have up set quite a few people.

Well, just because you have limited time to look at and respond to posts does not mean that you "are a joke" or a "waste of time" and so what if you do most surfing on a mobile phone? That does not make what you say any less valid. Don't think of leaving, hon, stick around, okay?
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: TheBattler on May 23, 2007, 05:32:52 PM
Lucy

:icon_hug:


No need to appologise - we are all friends here and care for each other.

Alice
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: debbiej on May 23, 2007, 09:52:01 PM
Awe Lucy,

I don't come to Susan's Place much anymore (at least not as much as in the beginning of my journey) but I do look up your profile so I can see what you have been posting. I just like you girl. There is an honesty and openness about you that is very rare and very refreshing. Just keep talking and sharing.

luv ya,

Debbie
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: tinkerbell on May 23, 2007, 10:33:30 PM
Dear Lucy, I really don't know what has happened, but I'm sure it is nothing (or the usual, us, making a storm in a glass of water).  So, don't worry about it hon  :).  You are always showing support to all of us here, and I personally value that from you very much. :icon_hug:  :)

tink :icon_chick:
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Seshatneferw on May 24, 2007, 03:01:32 AM
Yes, like just about everyone has already said, there is no reason to be sorry. Quite the contrary: it's good to have you around.

  Nfr
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Lucy on May 24, 2007, 05:06:26 AM
A big thank you for all your replys, i try to b honest and b supportive. I just feel that sometimes feel im out of my depth & a little over welmed. I appreciate your kind words and will hang around for a while longer. I just hate this journey in to the unknown, just not knowing where its going & the fact that its breaking up my marrage
Title: Re: A big heart felt sorry
Post by: Jillieann Rose on May 24, 2007, 05:32:37 AM
QuoteI just feel that sometimes feel im out of my depth & a little over welmed. I appreciate your kind words and will hang around for a while longer. I just hate this journey in to the unknown, just not knowing where its going & the fact that its breaking up my marrage
I feel the same way Lucy.How can you not be over whelmed? 
But that is when I look to the people who have been there and done that already.

I'm glad your here Lucy. I don't know who or what made you feel that you are not needed here. But believe me you are. And I'm sure like me you need Susan's too.
I see you as a gentle, caring friend who is going through similar gender issues in this life.
Thanks for being here Lucy.
Jillieann