I was wondering whoever has an STP, do you use a urinal or a stall? I was just asking because I pass 100% of the time and have a Gen 2 peecock, which I really like, but I still haven't used it at a urinal yet. I use the stall only because I am afraid I am gonna pee on myself if someone else is standing there and it doesn't look realistic enuf if someone looks at it.
I feel pretty comfortable in the bathroom but I just feel better using the stall and I find that I am not the only one. I was at a restraunt the other day and was drinking a lot of liquids ;) and needed to go bad. So I went to the bathroom and used the stall. Nobody else was in there but me, but as I was doing my business 2 other guys came in one wanted to use the stall (which I was in) and the other used the urinal. Not sure but I think that guy left the bathroom cuz the stall was being used.
What do you guys think? I know we have discussed this before but I am too lazy to look for the thread. Does it even matter if we use the stall? Does anybody even care? Or am I making a big deal about it?
Just wonderin'.
From someone who used to use the "men's room", there is no stigma for using a stall. I tended to be bladder shy and if anyone else was in there using a urinal, I would always head to the stalls.
For what its worth.
Thanks for the reply. Ya, I am a bit shy myself.
I don't understand the whole What if someone looks and it's not realistic.
If someone looks at your junk, you call them out for it.
''You want a picture of my c**k dude?''
That's it.
I know guys that use medicine spoons at urinals and have no problem.
Guys aren't supposed to look at each others dicks when they take a leak.
If you want too use the stall go ahead, no one is gonna think anything of it.
Whatever makes you comfortable.
I use the men's room all the time always use a stall. I have a STP that I am still learning how to use, works fine in the shower, but when I have my jeans on, I can't get the end low enough for pee to flow out and still keep a seal on my parts. I usually find a free stall when I go in the restroom, only time I may not is when there is only one or at busy places with lines where guys are using them for peeing. I just wait for a free one and go in and sit. I have never had anyone look at me strangely or say anything for using a stall.
Having been a dude (technically) for the past 40 years I can safely say that it's bad urinal etiquette to stare at another man's junk. Unless you're leaking all over the place and making a mess of things, I'd be really, really surprised if anybody would notice.
Also, I'm still kind of new here, so let me know if it's bad form being MtF posting on a FtM thread.
Quote from: Shodan on March 08, 2013, 12:05:00 PM
Having been a dude (technically) for the past 40 years I can safely say that it's bad urinal etiquette to stare at another man's junk. Unless you're leaking all over the place and making a mess of things, I'd be really, really surprised if anybody would notice.
Also, I'm still kind of new here, so let me know if it's bad form being MtF posting on a FtM thread.
FTM and MTF section are just there too separate topics.
Not the people that comment. So you are welcome here :P
Always used the stall, i use stp as well. I once use the urinal only just cos i really had to go. But never had any problems.
It's fine either way. I use just a plain medicine spoon and use a urinal so i dont think you need to worry about realism, no ones looking at your junk. The mens room is very no homo. and if they do look, hit them.
There's no reason to push yourself into anything you're not comfortable doing yet. Try to find a bathroom at a gas station or elsewhere that is a single room where you can lock the door. That way you can practice at a urinal and feel no outside pressure while you do it.
Me? I don't STP in public. Knowing that I will exit the restroom with dry pants is more preferred to me than any small bit of satisfaction I may experience by standing to liberate my fluids.
I know a lot of cis males sit to pee so I don't really worry about it.
I was born male and still present as male in public, and I use the stall more often than the urinal. I can tell you that if guys next to me at the urinal start looking over and trying to scope my junk, then it is grounds for things to get ugly/violent.
;D Thanks for all the replies! I don't feel so bad using the stalls anymore..
I'm in the process of going back to live on opposite gender role again
So until I get ffs or hormones kick ass I use stalls
And wtf is a gen 2 peacock?
Is that some code ?
XchristineX the gen2 peecock is an stp device made for transguys
i use the stall to stp unless I'm working a night shift and I'm the only one there
I'm guessing here, but STP = Stand to Pee?
yep shodan you guessed right
Woot! :icon_joy:
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I have almost always sat down to pee, except for the few times that I tried to use a urinal in which I felt too exposed and self-conscious about the whole experience, so I've never used one again. The last time I used the men's bathroom, about five years ago, I was so grossed out over the look of the place that I immediately turned around walked out and straight into the women's. And the time just before that, I went straight into an empty stall because it was crowded and the men gave me some really strange looks, like who is this woman in our bathroom, as I walked past them, I couldn't get out of there fast enough I was so nervous.
I always use a stall and no one has ever cared ;)
Ok...wow this strange....ts males telling girls that were males
About peeing as a male...
I LOLed a little realizing some of us make very poor boys heheh
Yea I only sit when I pee. Less stress I think. Plus I never make a mess on the seat
stalls for me, so much more relaxing. Although if its crowded ill use a stall. Seriously, no one cares at all where you go in the bathroom (most cultures anyway) You are the only person paying attention to your bathroom habits. Quick - tell me the color of the shirt of the last guy you saw taking leak. You dont know, because you dont care.