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Community Conversation => Transitioning => Topic started by: Larisa on April 03, 2013, 09:58:31 PM

Title: Not transistioning but have a list
Post by: Larisa on April 03, 2013, 09:58:31 PM
Ive written these down before on a notebook to help among myself about my girl side.

I keep trying to grow my hair out long and than blonde it.
Lose weight around the tummy
Little jaw facial adjustment with braces
get rid of facial hair permanently along with some chest hair. I hate shaving and feel it's a burden of being born a boy.

I take vitamins along with other stuff to help with my hair.

I "don't" want to fully be a girl, I just want to be able to have some of the girl look along with me if I feel like a girl inside sort of like today.

I may do other things in the future but I don't become a full girl right now. I am matthew and larisa also and I can't see leaving my guy side behind.


Title: Re: Not transistioning but have a list
Post by: Antonia J on April 03, 2013, 10:02:24 PM
That's cool - I feel kind of the same way right now. My brain feels wired in both worlds, and I dress somewhere in the middle.  Some days I am more in girl mode than boy mode, and other days the opposite.  All you have to do is be you!
Title: Re: Not transistioning but have a list
Post by: Larisa on April 03, 2013, 10:12:12 PM
I totally relate to you on this! :)
Title: Re: Not transistioning but have a list
Post by: Antonia J on April 03, 2013, 10:40:31 PM
I think the biggest thing I have learned is just do whatever you want to do, and if you are a little afraid, then fake the confidence and people won't care.  Dr. Seuss said it best, " Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Enjoy and be proud of who you are :)
Title: Re: Not transistioning but have a list
Post by: Anna_81 on April 04, 2013, 04:39:52 AM
Quote from: Antonia J on April 03, 2013, 10:40:31 PM
Dr. Seuss said it best, " Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." Enjoy and be proud of who you are :)

That is one of the coolest things I have ever read  ;D