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Community Conversation => Transgender talk => Topic started by: Cindy on April 13, 2013, 05:17:38 AM

Title: Next Challenge - Bring them on!!!
Post by: Cindy on April 13, 2013, 05:17:38 AM
Well the scared little rat is still going and happy and living. I had a depression today but got out of it with the help of my sister (VM) hug my sister.

So where was I?

FT when I thought there was never ever ever anyway.

Not in stealth and can never be so.

Very happy.

Been invited too and went to a friends very traditional wedding and even kissed the groom's and bride's parents on the cheek. Hee Hee

And now!

Well I'm invited to the retirement dinner of my boss, in a private room at a very ritzy restaurant in Adelaide.

No problems. Except every single medic and their partners from the last 30 years are also there. Everyone who ever knew my past male thingy. All at once. One place. In private, some have no idea that I'm now Cindy, well I doubt that they just haven't met me. Hmmmmm

So what to do?

I decided that there is only one me.  Shy and retiring are not in my vocabulary.  So I'm going to blow the place away.

So my hairdresser is giving me a blow-dry and style in the afternoon and he suggested getting a pro make over as well. Mmm why not!

I need another new dress  :embarrassed:

I was thinking of the classic LBD. I'm great and comfy in my 3 inch heels now and really looking forward to this.

There are a few people who are going to be there that loathed me and the feeling was mutual, so that should be fun.

This is a presentation beyond presentations, and BTW the guy who is retiring is shy and doesn't want the dinner and would rather be in the background, he knows me and he and his wife love me, as I do them. I think this will be the best present I can give him on many different levels.

So 19 April is the count down!

C
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring the on!!!
Post by: Erin Kay Howell on April 13, 2013, 05:35:11 AM
Goodluck! You have far more confidence then I do and I hope you drop a mic somewhere in there lol.
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring the on!!!
Post by: Jenny07 on April 13, 2013, 08:08:27 AM
I am sure will will enjoy yourself.  >:-)
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring the on!!!
Post by: Rachel on April 13, 2013, 10:08:29 AM
You are an inspiration.
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring the on!!!
Post by: Eveline on April 13, 2013, 10:23:44 AM
Quote from: Cindy James on April 13, 2013, 05:17:38 AM
I decided that there is only one me.  Shy and retiring are not in my vocabulary.  So I'm going to blow the place away.

Cindy, I love your attitude. You will have a wonderful evening. :)
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring the on!!!
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on April 13, 2013, 11:04:02 AM
Party time in Adelaide.

Rockin' the LBD.
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring them on!!!
Post by: Cindy on April 19, 2013, 09:25:21 AM
Well what a night.

Most negative reaction: Oh sorry I didn't recognise you, you have really changed, what is your name now, because I can't call you P?

Positive reaction: Oh wow you look a million dollars, can I hug you? (She did).

Standard reaction from those who didn't know about me: Oh Hi who are you and how do you know XXXXXX (the person whose dinner it was).

Heee Heee
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring them on!!!
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on April 19, 2013, 03:00:55 PM
Glad you have fun, Sis.
Title: Re: Next Challenge - Bring them on!!!
Post by: Jenny07 on April 19, 2013, 06:23:23 PM
As always, nothing will hold Cindy back from being herself...
Go girl.


J