I started crossdressing in my teens mainly because of the sexual arousal and the physical relief afterwords, as the years have gone by I've bought more clothes to wear and would crossdress once or twice a month. It went on that way for a few years, I then got a new job that allowed me to work alone outside. I started to wear panties and bras once a week, then a couple of times a week, though i get sexually aroused yet its not about the taboo of wearing girls clothes, but now wearing girls clothes makes me feel sexy, my girl wardrobe is twice the size of my mans wardrobe. I now wear something female everyday on rainy days when i'm wearing my rain gear i wear a full outfit and put on my wig, the freedom i feel then is indiscribable. I just ordered breast forms. I now enjoy dressing as a girl more then dressing like a man, not sure if this scares me or look forward to taking this exciting new trip farther. I also find comfort in doing my laundry and having to wash 2 to 3 loads of my girls clothes and have only 5 or 6 pieces of mens clothing. I'm new here just wanted to explain how i was feeling, and wondering if others feel the same way
Hi, darlene
I feel the same say. A difference is that my wife washes my female clothes for me ;D
Barbie~~
, I'm jealous. Good for you! :)
Hi darlene,
I think sometimes people get a bit nervous and think that they are doing something 'odd' or something taboo. There is absolutely nothing wrong in expressing yourself through clothing etc. It is no reflection upon your manliness or upon your femininity and it is not a sign post that you need or have to go further.
The spectrum of gender ID is enormous, I'm a FT woman and I have to admit that I do enjoy wearing nice clothes and looking good, as many woman do, look at the industry that supports us! Everything from nail designs to clothes to make up to just name it, and mostly stuff that guys just don't think about at all. I don't get a sexual thrill from it but I get a great deal of emotional support by presenting well, I think this is very common among woman.
For cross dressers I think and hope that there is a great deal of emotional and physical satisfaction in 'being yourself' and I personally think that is very important and needs to be accepted and understood. Too often we come across people who feel some shame, and there should not be any, it is perfectly normal and a lovely thing to do.
If you do feel the need to go further it may well be worthwhile talking to a gender therapist, they are not as scary as people think, well they shouldn't be, and of course going further is not compulsory!!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
I was reminded of an old anti-Gay quote in Australia when homosexuality was legalised in NSW , 'this year homosexuality has been legalised, next year it will be made compulsory'.
Heee Hee :laugh: :laugh:
Hugs and enjoy
Cindy