I am still planning on going and hanging out with my sister for a few days, but we are getting the chance today. This will be the first time I will be dressed with somebody else and my first time really letting out my female side. Here's hoping it all goes weel. Wish me luck.
The best to you, Bookworm.
:)
Well I am here and I am nervous. She said I could wear whatever and we could do some girl things, but I am just nervous. I am ready though and willing. She is too. Oh well I just need to start somewhere.
Quote from: Bookworm on May 06, 2013, 02:57:05 PM
Well I am here and I am nervous. She said I could wear whatever and we could do some girl things, but I am just nervous. I am ready though and willing. She is too. Oh well I just need to start somewhere.
Relax have some fun your out with your sister doing girl things. Just think about how awesome that is! I think you'll have a great time and it's a moment you'll never forget! :)
Make sure to let us know how it goes!!!!!!
I'm envious. My sister hasn't "had time" to get together with me when I'm dressed as my female self.
I'm betting you'll have a great time.
I hope your day went well, and you had fun! Your sister sounds like a sweetie :)
I am happy for you bookworm. Having an accepting family must mean a lot and is a great way to start your journey. I am hoping your day went well :)
I should be more exact. She is my best and oldest friend. I refer to her as my sister and she sees herself that was as well. It went okay, but she does not know how to handle me being the way I am. That is very confused about my gender and my sexuality. What I mean is like she did my makeup and she was like well I only used the minimal to accentuate your features. She was like, but generally people like you use more. I guess this is true to some degree, but I think she meant a drag queen and that is simply not the case. I am not sure what I am, but a drag queen I am not. Now as far as just a cross dresser yeah I know I will need more makeup, or makeup done well. Over all though it was touching and nice. The only thing that sucks is educating her on how I feel and what all the terms mean. She says she understands, but she only does a little. She is trying though and who know I might just come out to my mother.
Oh side not I did not look too bad. Not passable per say, but not bad. I wore this dress that made me look pretty good. :) I am supposed to go hang out for a few days here soon. I am still confused and today did not do much for me as far as giving me a definitive answer on how I feel. It sucked because I felt like a guy in a dress. I guess that does tell me something. I did feel good dressed though.
Confused, but learning. Oh well.
She just needs to get used to the realities.
Wanna swap places? ;)
It sounds like she is very accepting, but needs more time to learn and adjust. That isn't a bad thing though. I can't imagine most people really understanding these things without some learning curve. So, don't worry about that too much.
I am glad you had a good time :)