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Title: Hobbies!
Post by: Mr.X on May 13, 2013, 01:13:17 PM
Right, after my depressing post about dating and such, I felt like a more cheerful post.

What do you guys enjoy doing in your spare time? Are they typical man hobbies? Girl hobbies? Something in between?

I'm a real geek. I love gaming and have enjoyed online games. Mass Effect, Dishonored, Far Cry, World of Warcraft just to name a few.... But I also enjoy roleplay. Even though that is a real geeky thing to enjoy, I do have a feeling it is something enjoyed mostly by girls. To me, roleplay is an escape. I have always roleplayed guy characters, after all.
On top of that, I enjoy bird watching. I don't know many women who enjoy that, to be honest. But come on, birds are awesome!

So, what about you?
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: randomdude5 on May 13, 2013, 01:20:20 PM
I USED to play MMO's but I find that after my transition and stuff I don't need them as an escape anymore lol. :D

Right now and for the past years I've really been into cycling. I wouldn't call it a hobby though, its more of an addiction. Idk if its more typically male or female and I don't really care either way. I have many road bikes both in my garage and in my room and I treat them like they were my own children. xD I also have a tendency to get way off topic and too absorbed into what I'm saying when I start talking about cycling, so I'm gonna stop now.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: AdamMLP on May 13, 2013, 01:46:16 PM
I'm a pretty boring person, I don't really have hobbies.  If I'm somewhere interesting I'll turn into a photographer for the whole time, I was constantly driving my parents insane when we went to Iceland and I was taking photographs of things they couldn't see any interest in.  I'm hoping that if I manage to work driving lessons into my schedule and get a car then I'll get more engaged in that again and be able to go out and take photographs without jetting off to foriegn countries.  Apparently that's a more masculine hobby, but I don't really think of it as gendered at all.

I used to do a lot of writing, but the topics normally spark up bad thoughts now, and I can't think of any happy inspiration, so I occasionally write a bit of Harry Potter fanfiction but that's it.  I suppose that's a litle more female orientated, but I don't know, I can't tell what gender people are from their usernames.

What I seem to spend most of my time doing now is watching either train documentaries, Air Crash Investigation (happens to be what's on TV at the moment, amazing landing!), or history documentaries, or researching these things.  I think that's pretty manly things to be doing, especially train stuff.  I'm obsessed with trains, if I hear a train in the background by my house I can tell the direction it's going, whether it's on time or not, and have a pretty good guess at why it's late if it is.  If I can tell which direction it's going I'll tell you what time it is, and then bore the life out of everyone around me.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Devlyn on May 13, 2013, 02:05:46 PM
Quote from: AlexanderC on May 13, 2013, 01:46:16 PM
I'm a pretty boring person, I don't really have hobbies.  If I'm somewhere interesting I'll turn into a photographer for the whole time, I was constantly driving my parents insane when we went to Iceland and I was taking photographs of things they couldn't see any interest in.  I'm hoping that if I manage to work driving lessons into my schedule and get a car then I'll get more engaged in that again and be able to go out and take photographs without jetting off to foriegn countries.  Apparently that's a more masculine hobby, but I don't really think of it as gendered at all.

I used to do a lot of writing, but the topics normally spark up bad thoughts now, and I can't think of any happy inspiration, so I occasionally write a bit of Harry Potter fanfiction but that's it.  I suppose that's a litle more female orientated, but I don't know, I can't tell what gender people are from their usernames.

What I seem to spend most of my time doing now is watching either train documentaries, Air Crash Investigation (happens to be what's on TV at the moment, amazing landing!), or history documentaries, or researching these things.  I think that's pretty manly things to be doing, especially train stuff.  I'm obsessed with trains, if I hear a train in the background by my house I can tell the direction it's going, whether it's on time or not, and have a pretty good guess at why it's late if it is.  If I can tell which direction it's going I'll tell you what time it is, and then bore the life out of everyone around me.

My property abuts the railroad, I don't need a clock!
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: AdamMLP on May 13, 2013, 02:10:37 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on May 13, 2013, 02:05:46 PM


My property abuts the railroad, I don't need a clock!

We have 2 every hour which makes it a little confusing... Are least we know it's either 43 or 7 minutes past the hour though!
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: randomroads on May 13, 2013, 02:31:56 PM
I'm addicted to dog training. I train in agility, obedience, and schutzhund. With the move to Indiana there's a French ring club about two hours away in Ohio that I'm really excited about.

I really like to knit but I'm still learning how to make socks. It comes with a 'I can make that cheaper than buying it' mentality. I like to be self sufficient as much as I can while living in the city and still buying food at a store.

I love horses and spend as much time at barns as I can. I haven't been able to in about a year because of where I live but I'm hoping to pick that up again soon. Cleaning the barn from top to bottom, including mucking stalls, is a great work out without a gym fee and sometimes you're lucky enough to find a place that will pay you for the work. So far I've been doing it as a volunteer position.
I also really enjoy horse riding/horse training.

Hiking, camping, and hunting are some of my outdoor hobbies. This past winter was my first real winter and I wasn't able to go skiing but I think I'll like it a lot when I'm able to next winter.

Bikejoring is something I'm getting into. I'm working on my fitness while my dog matures a bit more. She's under a year old so she's too young to pull. Sometimes she goes out with me on the bike for a short jog to build up her endurance.

I really like making things with my hands. I've made all of the furniture I own besides my bed frame (it was imported from Indonesia and I bought it from craigslist. SCORE!). I'm especially proud of the desk I built. The design is great and I took hours sanding and staining and finishing it to perfection.

I've always been into do-it-yourself, get active, stay busy hobbies. I don't consider any of these male or female. Plenty of women are professional carpenters and designers and plenty of men are in the textile business. The key thing I've noticed about my hobbies is that most of them don't involve another human being. If I want to spend time with someone I'll go out and have fun. My hobbies are my alone time.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Edge on May 13, 2013, 02:36:01 PM
I have the usual hobbies of reading books, comics, and manga and watching movies, anime, and tv shows. I get overly excited about things I like especially fictional which I am aware is girly, but it's so much fun. Music is a love of mine. I also like to research things. Mythology and folklore are my life. Brains, genetics, and the advances that are being and their potential for future healthcare and how we understand ourselves are exciting. I self reflect a little too much. I am getting into sewing so I can make my own clothes and costumes, but that's more a means to an end. I like wearing costumes and I'd wear one almost every day if I could. I like going to museums. I like old things and reproductions of old things. I also like camping (the real camping, not the trailer camping), but I haven't had the opportunity in several years. I walk a lot. I want to get in the habit of working out. I also have a habit of starting to teach myself a language and then giving up, but I want to get rid of the giving up part. Oh yeah I also have a habit of collecting wind instruments. I can play some of them and some are too decorative to play.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: democration on May 13, 2013, 02:51:27 PM
I'm addicted to role playing. It has taken up a good portion of my life for the last six or seven years. I don't think that it's necessarily a girl's hobby, though I agree that generally you'll find more girls than boys. The site that I was on for a long time had the men in a slight majority, though.

Video games are also great. :-D I like RPGs, unsurprisingly, and MineCraft.

Past that I'm really hard pressed to think of any real hobbies I have. I've always wanted more hobbies, but nothing ever really sticks. I'm good at writing and it's what I like to do, so I stick with that most of the time. I've tried drawing, but my skills are mediocre and I'm not willing to put in the time to hone them; I've tried playing guitar, but I get discouraged pretty easily. I used to read a lot, and I've got a list of books to get through, but my reading has been forgotten in favor of writing the last few years.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: CursedFireDean on May 13, 2013, 03:53:39 PM
Video games, pokemon, I'd consider those guys hobbies :D
Watching TV, Reading, I think mostly both gender hobbies?
Also enjoy costume making, which I think is mostly female-dominated. And by costume making, I don't mean clothes, but more like mascot costumes and such. I'm not good, nor am I very experienced, but it's fun none the less.

I'd LOVE to be able to go horseback riding more, but there's no stables near me that aren't insanely expensive. Once I get off my lazy butt to go get my license, I'm hoping to volunteer at a horse rescue. For every full day of volunteer work, you get an hour of riding time :D Considering the cost of their hour trail rides, this is well worth it since I love horses and don't mind the work at all.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Mr.X on May 13, 2013, 03:59:29 PM
Awesome that so many of you enjoy video games!

QuoteAlso enjoy costume making, which I think is mostly female-dominated. And by costume making, I don't mean clothes, but more like mascot costumes and such. I'm not good, nor am I very experienced, but it's fun none the less.

I got the same thing going on. I want to make awesome cosplay Mass effect weapons. Yay for roleplay!
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: King Malachite on May 13, 2013, 04:02:53 PM
I play video games (as you already know).  I love playing video games but I can't buy them like I want to because of the stupid high prices and the DLC

I also write fanfiction.


I love to listen to music and watch videos on Youtube.


I love to sleep my life away.


I love to daydream.


Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: randomroads on May 13, 2013, 05:29:24 PM
Quote from: CursedFireDean on May 13, 2013, 03:53:39 PM

I'd LOVE to be able to go horseback riding more, but there's no stables near me that aren't insanely expensive. Once I get off my lazy butt to go get my license, I'm hoping to volunteer at a horse rescue. For every full day of volunteer work, you get an hour of riding time :D Considering the cost of their hour trail rides, this is well worth it since I love horses and don't mind the work at all.

I volunteered at a horse rescue for a few years and loved it, but since it was a ex racehorse rehab barn only the trainer was allowed to be up on them. Here's a picture of my favorite, Eddie, who's still up for adoption. He loved to steal the rake from me and kick over the wheelbarrow full of manure.

http://content.sitezoogle.com/u/64215/dd82fb16cbae7324f8a1719f3ea3f15455e23de4/photo/542283.jpg?1359861178 (http://content.sitezoogle.com/u/64215/dd82fb16cbae7324f8a1719f3ea3f15455e23de4/photo/542283.jpg?1359861178)
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: CursedFireDean on May 13, 2013, 06:27:52 PM
Quote from: randomroads on May 13, 2013, 05:29:24 PM
I volunteered at a horse rescue for a few years and loved it, but since it was a ex racehorse rehab barn only the trainer was allowed to be up on them. Here's a picture of my favorite, Eddie, who's still up for adoption. He loved to steal the rake from me and kick over the wheelbarrow full of manure.

http://content.sitezoogle.com/u/64215/dd82fb16cbae7324f8a1719f3ea3f15455e23de4/photo/542283.jpg?1359861178 (http://content.sitezoogle.com/u/64215/dd82fb16cbae7324f8a1719f3ea3f15455e23de4/photo/542283.jpg?1359861178)

He's a beautiful horse :O
Some of the horses at this rescue can only be ridden by certain people because they rescue abused horses- so some of them are extremely skittish, hard to handle, etc. Last time I was there though, she let me ride most of the horses with a few exceptions. I actually got to help break one of them of her kicking problem. (Although, the stable owner actually tricked me into it :P) It was nice there, they were really good at recognizing people's comfort and skill level on a horse.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: harlee on May 13, 2013, 07:05:45 PM
I like to go fishing and wakeboarding/tubing (so much fun!!). I also like to ride my BMX bike :)
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Devlyn on May 13, 2013, 07:17:56 PM
Quote from: AlexanderC on May 13, 2013, 02:10:37 PM
We have 2 every hour which makes it a little confusing... Are least we know it's either 43 or 7 minutes past the hour though!

Hourly trains to Boston here, every thirty minutes during morning and evening rush, this is the bottom of my driveway. (Sorry for bad pic)


(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fi1279.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fy537%2FDevlynMarie%2F20121011_172043_zps6f164377.jpg&hash=7f14b3840ee3b135dc0b97992685d54893fb5dd1)
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: DriftingCrow on May 13, 2013, 07:24:36 PM
I like doing some girly things: knitting, crocheting, sewing (except I hate my sewing machine!  :icon_chainsaw: ). I think my gender neutral hobbies are: dyeing fabric, working with stained glass (though I haven't done that in years, but if I get a house one day of y own I'll get the equipment), cooking, and exercising. My manly hobbies are. . . hmm. . . lifting weights? So much seems gender neutral to me. I try to read sometimes.

Like Alex, I also like trains, but don't watch docs on them or anything. My great-uncle used to own a store that sold those little trains that go around train-tracks that you can install on your walls in your house, it was pretty cool.

Quote from: randomroads on May 13, 2013, 02:31:56 PM
I'm addicted to dog training. I train in agility, obedience, and schutzhund. With the move to Indiana there's a French ring club about two hours away in Ohio that I'm really excited about.

I really like to knit but I'm still learning how to make socks. It comes with a 'I can make that cheaper than buying it' mentality. I like to be self sufficient as much as I can while living in the city and still buying food at a store.

Want to train my dog? I am trying to get her to let me spray some plague blaster into her mouth  :D And, socks are pretty easy once you get the hang of it.  :)

Quote from: Devlyn Marie on May 13, 2013, 02:05:46 PM
My property abuts the railroad, I don't need a clock!

Damn that Purple Slug  :D I'll be waving to you next time!
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Devlyn on May 13, 2013, 07:29:31 PM
"Damn that Purple Slug!"

The Lavender Layover?
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: DriftingCrow on May 13, 2013, 07:31:57 PM
Quote from: Devlyn Marie on May 13, 2013, 07:29:31 PM
"Damn that Purple Slug!"

The Lavender Layover?

Haha yeah, apparently my close to $300/month isn't enough to keep the trains on time. One Saturday this winter I was standing outside waiting (whistle stop isn't open on weekends), it was the coldest day of the year, and the thing just never came! Me and the others there nearly froze to death until we just decided to say F it and leave.  :D (Though I do like the conductors)
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: CursedFireDean on May 13, 2013, 07:40:01 PM
Quote from: harlee on May 13, 2013, 07:05:45 PM
I like to go fishing and wakeboarding/tubing (so much fun!!). I also like to ride my BMX bike :)

Oh, I forgot about wakeboarding and tubing! I do that!
I've always wanted to try BMX biking, but never had a chance :/
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Devlyn on May 13, 2013, 07:41:49 PM
True story: One Saturday before they eliminated  weekend service, I took the train into Boston. When the train stopped to pick me up, the door opened and there were two conductors greeting me. I told them that the Congressional Railroad Act of 1794 required them to sing "I Been Workin' On The Railroad" anytime I requested it. They both burst out laughing and never collected my fare.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Jack_M on May 13, 2013, 08:47:48 PM
I love sports, I'll play whatever I can, e.g. Football (soccer), rugby, ice hockey, tennis, basketball...and so on.  I also love cycling.

I love video games but I'm more into sports, music (guitar hero) and racing games.  I do enjoy some of the shoot 'em ups, but not online, just by myself because I'm not that great at those, I just enjoy them :P.

I also like to play either piano or guitar.

I love martial arts and my favourite is ITF Taekwon-do so I go to classes for that 3 times a week.  I also train 6 days out of the week with Taekwon-do, cardio and strength training - so I love exercise and working out in general.

I work in VFX and I do that in my spare time too.  I also shoot my own shorts, music videos, trailers, etc.  So that's a lot of fun.  I'm also a movie buff so I watch a lot of movies.  My favourites tend to be action, thrillers, suspense, horror, martial arts & documentaries.  I hate anything romantic for the most part and there's precious few good comedies these days but I did enjoy movies like 'The Hangover' and 'Ted' but more for a laugh as they're not good quality films really; just a bit of fun.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Simon on May 13, 2013, 11:05:25 PM
I'm rather proficient with computers so I spend time learning more about them. When I get the cash I want to build a custom tower.

I am big into animals and nature. BIG beach bum. I love going fishing, swimming, and basically anything to do with water.

I enjoy the Zoo and other museums in the area.

Watching movies (horror and action).

Watching sports (UFC, Football, Baseball, and Professional "wraslin"). I'm considering getting into martial arts but not sure exactly what I want to try. I think Kung Fu looks neat though.

Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Konnor on May 14, 2013, 11:22:56 AM
Another martial arts guy here. My dojo trains karate, jujitsu, and judo on a rotating basis. I go twice a week and LOVE it!! I also play softball in a coed GLBT league which is really fun and a great way to meet people. Other than that, I'm trying to start jogging and lifting weights on a regular basis but it's hard for me to get enthusiastic and stick with it. Sports are more my thing.
Title: Re: Hobbies!
Post by: Erik Ezrin on May 14, 2013, 12:46:34 PM
I have been fencing for a while, but quit because the trainer was REALLY hard on me (I was the only 'girl', not so good condition, and doing it for fun, while he wanted us all to be olympic champs), and now I'm arching on a non professional basis. I also love skiing (yeah, I know it's bad for the environment, I just like it TOO much :s) but apart from that I'm not quite a sporty person. I should probably do more, from a health perspective, but I'm just so lazy :/
I want to learn how to longboard as well.

I also really like drawing, painting, etc. just creative stuff.

Watching sci-fi, fantasy and (good) action movies, and reading books of varying genres (though I still have a knack for fantasy. I also like science magazines though)

I love video games too. Mainly fantasy games like Skyrim, Fables, etc. but also like AC I/II/III, and I used to play a lot of MMORPG games when I was younger. Now I've also developed a liking for racing games, I really love them, and tactical games (think Starcraft, Age of Empires)

And I really love music as well. I've been playing piano for 4 months now, and I really love it to death. It might not be that long, but I cannot imagine my life without it anymore, and I cannot understand I put it off for so long.

For the rest... uhm... well, I have some freaky attraction towards dead animals. I dug up my rabbit after a few years of his death, and reassembled his skeleton as a personal project (okay, I feel a little crazy for telling this, lol), and collected a few roadkill animals for the same purpose. Okay, I admit it, I'm nuts as hell, but also an overenthusiastic biologist XD