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Title: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: girl you look fierce on May 16, 2013, 05:18:26 PM
wtf?
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked)) topic
Post by: Shantel on May 16, 2013, 05:28:12 PM
Quote from: girl you look fierce on May 16, 2013, 05:18:26 PM
I'm really sad... I bought cuter shorts but they were just a little too close for comfort pre-SRS. They were so cute though...

They must have been "Daisy Dukes?"
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked)) topic
Post by: Nicolette on May 16, 2013, 05:44:13 PM
Quote from: girl you look fierce on May 16, 2013, 05:37:01 PM
Nope lol they were not jean shorts, just cute solid black high-waisted ones... but I think I don't have the anatomy to tuck properly so sucks  :-\

Tell me about it.  :(
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked)) topic
Post by: =celestica= on May 16, 2013, 06:22:36 PM
Don't throw anything away just because of that!
giiirl, if i could i'd show you how to tuck like a pro, i'm talking about camel toe for days.

duct tape is a girls bff.
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked)) topic
Post by: Hideyoshi on May 16, 2013, 06:33:21 PM
Quote from: =celestica= on May 16, 2013, 06:22:36 PM
Don't throw anything away just because of that!
giiirl, if i could i'd show you how to tuck like a pro, i'm talking about camel toe for days.

duct tape is a girls bff.

I could never put duct tape on my junk... no short shorts for me :P
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked)) topic
Post by: <hidden member> on May 16, 2013, 08:29:46 PM
Wear the shorts! just use 2 pairs of tight undies to tuck. I do it all the time. :P
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: =celestica= on May 17, 2013, 02:59:58 AM
honestly i would make a tutorial but i'm so lazy and that probably wouldn't even be allowed.

to get a REALLY good tuck, like, bikini tuck(it is possible) you gotta use tape.
Duct tape.

i'll try to type even though i'm not good with words but anyway,

You're gonna need two things.
toilet paper
and tape. medical works, but duct tape is best, i actually use both at the same time.

first thing you wanna do it cut out your strips of tape so they'll be ready to use. I use about 3 strips of medical tape and 1 strip of duct tape.
You don't want the strips to be too short, you want them to end at about your tail bone, so i say just make them long and snip off whatever is left once it's pulled back.

then you wrap your "part" in toilet paper, now this is really important lmao, unless you like the sensation of tape ripping off skin on that delicate area.
I've seen tucking videos where tgirls will wrap their part in TAPE! i'm like gurl was wrong witchu.
Use toilet paper, just wrap it up and get a small piece of tape to make sure it stays wrapped.

Then here comes the part where you have to push up the twins into the sockets that we all have. Trust me, you have them.
I think over time from tucking the sockets "stretch open" because it DOES become easier and a lot more comfortable to push them up there,
So just push them up, look in the mirror when they're pushed up, it should kind of look like  you have a camel toe :P obviously one goes on one side and the other goes on the other side, they're going to be above your part, where your pubic area is.
You wanna keep one hand under the twins make sure they do not fall down or slip back into the sack and with the other hand push your wrapped up part back to where your, ahem, anus, is.
and this next part is also important, you want to, while still making sure the twins don't fall down, reach around with your free hand and grab the excess skin from the now empty sack and PULL back as tight as you can with out hurting yourself.
Sort of use your thighs to make sure it all stays pulled back, you wanna make sure all the excessive stuff is pulled tight so the twins won't have anywhere to fall down to.

Next all you do is take one strip of tape, put it UNDER, not over, but under one of the twins and pull the strip of tape back between your buttcheeks to your tail bone.
do the same thing on the other side for the other twin.
and then take your third strip of tape and use that one for the middle!

Now the reason i use a final strip of duct tape is just to really make sure that your junk is SECURE and that beautiful tuck isn't going anywhere.
so i place in the middle, like where you put that third strip of tape, and you snatch it back nice and tight :)
and i use medical tape first, so it wont be as painful taking it all off since the duct tape would be on top of it.

Tucking takes practice but if you do all the steps right you'll be able to wear whatever you want, even a bikini pre-SRS.

http://i.imgur.com/QhsoEJi.jpg (http://i.imgur.com/QhsoEJi.jpg)

happy tucking, y'all
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: Nicolette on May 17, 2013, 03:17:44 AM
Taping has got to be the best in terms of look, but not in terms of comfort. I've been tucking for a long, long time and tried every way. My thingamajigs are now microscopic . Taping and needing to have a pee just aren't compatible. It's fantastic for the first two hours though. A couple of small size panties plus a panty girdle is what I find best and safest. It's not perfect, but a compromise. There's still some bulk there. OMG, I can't wait for srs.
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked)) topic
Post by: Jamie D on May 17, 2013, 04:18:47 AM
Quote from: girl you look fierce on May 16, 2013, 08:54:12 PM
I just can't find any "holes" that people talk about... or they are not big enough... all I can find in the area is pubic bone...

Refer to this diagram

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwc1.smartdraw.com%2Fexamples%2Fcontent%2FExamples%2F10_Healthcare%2FAnatomy_Illustrations%2FInguinal_Canal_of_the_Male_Reproductive_System_L.jpg&hash=48d8a7c82cf5ec32bf3c17adcddcb55816050cb6)
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked)) topic
Post by: Hideyoshi on May 17, 2013, 06:34:45 AM
Quote from: Hideyoshi on May 16, 2013, 06:33:21 PM
I could never put duct tape on my junk... no short shorts for me :P

I lied. Just bought shorts online yesterday... I'll try this out then
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: Jennygirl on May 17, 2013, 10:41:13 AM
For the longest time (it seemed.... I guess only about a week :D) I thought that the twins were supposed to go like up in between the leg and the pelvis.. When in actuality it's kind if more along the front of the pelvis under the skin just south of the navel area. Then it all clicked. Like, if someone sat on your lap the wrong way while you're tucked, the twins are not going to be happy. They are just under the skin in front... Right at the start of your lap.

Still, it took a few weeks before I was comfortable enough to do a full leg cross (I was per-hrt, too)- but now after 5 months on hrt my experience is very similar to shelly... They just kinda live there now and they like their new home :)

Cheers.
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: Lyric on May 17, 2013, 10:55:26 AM
Everyone's anatomy is a bit different, but I suspect you can do it. My only problem is that when I'm tucked fully, things stick out up there about as much as they did down there. The right undies seem to pretty much fit things where they need to be on their own, though. A good, snug control panty does the trick for me quite well. I've even got a pair of jeans with built-in panties that work fine.

I seem to recall that our friend Barbie has good success wearing about two pairs of smallish children's panties. I guess the best thing is to just keep trying stuff until you find something that works for you. I'm pretty sure something will, though.

~ Lyric ~
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: Just Shelly on May 17, 2013, 11:01:58 AM
Quote from: =celestica= on May 17, 2013, 02:59:58 AM
honestly i would make a tutorial but i'm so lazy and that probably wouldn't even be allowed.

to get a REALLY good tuck, like, bikini tuck(it is possible) you gotta use tape.
Duct tape.

i'll try to type even though i'm not good with words but anyway,

You're gonna need two things.
toilet paper
and tape. medical works, but duct tape is best, i actually use both at the same time.

first thing you wanna do it cut out your strips of tape so they'll be ready to use. I use about 3 strips of medical tape and 1 strip of duct tape.
You don't want the strips to be too short, you want them to end at about your tail bone, so i say just make them long and snip off whatever is left once it's pulled back.

then you wrap your "part" in toilet paper, now this is really important lmao, unless you like the sensation of tape ripping off skin on that delicate area.
I've seen tucking videos where tgirls will wrap their part in TAPE! i'm like gurl was wrong witchu.
Use toilet paper, just wrap it up and get a small piece of tape to make sure it stays wrapped.

Then here comes the part where you have to push up the twins into the sockets that we all have. Trust me, you have them.
I think over time from tucking the sockets "stretch open" because it DOES become easier and a lot more comfortable to push them up there,
So just push them up, look in the mirror when they're pushed up, it should kind of look like  you have a camel toe :P obviously one goes on one side and the other goes on the other side, they're going to be above your part, where your pubic area is.
You wanna keep one hand under the twins make sure they do not fall down or slip back into the sack and with the other hand push your wrapped up part back to where your, ahem, anus, is.
and this next part is also important, you want to, while still making sure the twins don't fall down, reach around with your free hand and grab the excess skin from the now empty sack and PULL back as tight as you can with out hurting yourself.
Sort of use your thighs to make sure it all stays pulled back, you wanna make sure all the excessive stuff is pulled tight so the twins won't have anywhere to fall down to.

Next all you do is take one strip of tape, put it UNDER, not over, but under one of the twins and pull the strip of tape back between your buttcheeks to your tail bone.
do the same thing on the other side for the other twin.
and then take your third strip of tape and use that one for the middle!

Now the reason i use a final strip of duct tape is just to really make sure that your junk is SECURE and that beautiful tuck isn't going anywhere.
so i place in the middle, like where you put that third strip of tape, and you snatch it back nice and tight :)
and i use medical tape first, so it wont be as painful taking it all off since the duct tape would be on top of it.

Tucking takes practice but if you do all the steps right you'll be able to wear whatever you want, even a bikini pre-SRS.

http://i.imgur.com/QhsoEJi.jpg (http://i.imgur.com/QhsoEJi.jpg)

happy tucking, y'all
WOW!! That  seems like a lot of work!!

I just don't understand why so many have a problem with tucking! I seriously think maybe I'm doing something completely different.

I had tucked many years ago....pre everything!!...and yes it was a bit uncomfortable but I still could do it fairly easy. I use to tape way back then....I did use duct tape and I actually thought   :D I invented this routine since I had it down to a science....I never had a problem even then. I don't think I am less endowed then some others, I am probably on the smaller to medium side.

The only time I tape now is if I will be at a water park or beach for the day. I use waterproof tape or surgical tape. The most important thing to follow is to shave completely and to clean with alcohol before hand. If this is done carefully you can go all day in and out of water with no problems. I use 4-6 pieces of tape and form an area where I can urinated properly. This is also a crucial step...if things are in correct but you fail to properly direct your thingy....when you urinate it may end up spilling in the taped area and the warm urination can loosen up the tape.

I have gone swimming taping and not taping. I will say the only reason I tape is so I feel more secure (some pun intended) with swimming, laying or just walking around. Its already a very insecure feeling walking around in basically your underwear!!!
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: Jennygirl on May 17, 2013, 11:07:59 AM
Quote from: Lyric on May 17, 2013, 10:55:26 AM

I seem to recall that our friend Barbie has good success wearing about two pairs of smallish children's panties. I guess the best thing is to just keep trying stuff until you find something that works for you. I'm pretty sure something will, though.

~ Lyric ~

This is the way I do it too, tiny sizes :)
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: Just Shelly on May 17, 2013, 11:12:50 AM
I completely forgot to add this part...I remembered now having this same subject come up another time and didn't realize that the women trying to tuck were wearing underwear made out of nylon or polyester.

If this is what you are wearing...then it will almost me impossible to tuck without taping. I wear nothing but 100% cotton underwear...not only do I prefer these type but its the only type I can find in my size....all women's except the very dainty panties are too big....I have to buy children's underwear....at least I get to pick some cute ones!!!

I hope this helps anyone!!
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: <hidden member> on May 18, 2013, 01:11:29 AM
Quote from: girl you look fierce on May 17, 2013, 11:24:50 AM
Yep I accepted it's all that will work for me, I also have a shaping garment to smooth out my hip contour in tight dresses and that tucks me very well but doesn't help me much now because I'm gonna be out in long days of heat and humidity and don't wanna wear that :P ughhhh lol.

I don't really like to wear tight panties though because I still have the fear that it will stop fat from coming in around my hips, I have big like dents in my hip contour (like a permanent muffin top) around the panty line and I think it's because my pants were always too tight on my hips as a kid and crushed them so it didn't store fat there, even the skin there is permanently discolored  :-\

(looks like this)

(https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.lipo-book.com%2Fpicture%2Fupload%2FImage%2Foriginalbookimages%2F6_7.jpg&hash=db3a9ea5da5439edb96e1583775e648b824ce54f)
I was scared of that too but I did a bunch of research and talked with some doctors and they told me that Compression from any outside force will have no effect on fat distribution and I believe them. I have the stretch marks to prove it and I got them while I was wearing tight undies and really tight spandex with hip padding. I'm still paranoid though dunno why  :-\
Title: Re: The official, 'You look fabulous, darling' (tucked) topic
Post by: Shantel on May 18, 2013, 09:27:02 AM
Quote<hidden member>
I was scared of that too but I did a bunch of research and talked with some doctors and they told me that Compression from any outside force will have no effect on fat distribution and I believe them. I have the stretch marks to prove it and I got them while I was wearing tight undies and really tight spandex with hip padding. I'm still paranoid though dunno why  :-\

Everyone on feminizing HRT gets a little girlie tummy (muffin top) cis and trans women alike, it's a hormonally driven thing. If you were a 12 year old cis girl you wouldn't have one, but by 18 it would be evident. It's just part of the program ladies!