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Community Conversation => Transsexual talk => Female to male transsexual talk (FTM) => Topic started by: CR on May 25, 2013, 09:47:07 PM

Title: Dress pants
Post by: CR on May 25, 2013, 09:47:07 PM
Does anyone pack while wearing dress pants? It's a little more obvious either way with that type of pant.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: Arch on May 25, 2013, 09:48:48 PM
I packed on my last job interview. I had already stopped using the firm packer I used to use, so I was packing with a gel packer, size small.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: mangoslayer on May 25, 2013, 10:30:17 PM
I always pack now, but back before I started packing 24/7 i would always when i wore dress pants. It just felt super obvious if i didnt.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: Simon on May 25, 2013, 11:31:55 PM
Nope, I don't pack at all. Trust me, people aren't looking. Even if someone did nobody is going to point and say, "He doesn't have a penis!".
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: Nyri on May 26, 2013, 01:16:40 AM
My last partner didn't have a noticeable bulge in anything he wore (unless he had an erection) and he definitely had a penis.  I do own a packer, and the one time I used it in dress pants the bulge was VERY noticeable.  In that case I'd be more self conscious of such a bulge than of not having one, so I don't pack with dress pants... I don't like the thought of going to a job interview and having the person thinking I'm excited to be there in a sexual way
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: xander on May 27, 2013, 04:49:40 AM
I pack about 60% of the time. I agree that it is super obvious so I always pack when I wear dress pants or tight pants.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: WorkerBeast on May 27, 2013, 10:19:10 AM
You may have to get your dress pants tailored or adjusted a little.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: Big Stitch on June 06, 2013, 01:05:28 AM
It completely obvious in dress pants and I love it. I'm not talking my pants are too tight kinda bulge, but a bulge that makes people occasionally give you a second look. Also if you ever go to a men's clothing store and get measured for pants the tailor will ask which way do you dress. If you don't plan on packing in the dress pants it doesn't matter but if you do - hopefully your packing so he can leave the proper growing room.

In my head my dick is huge and it's only natural that it gets some notice. The only time I don't want a big bulge is when I'm wearing my basketball shorts. To me that just makes gym/game kinda awkward.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: Bastian on June 06, 2013, 02:45:57 AM
I pack in dress pants constantly, but I always wear boxer briefs because they keep things in place and in doing so I can make my bulge unnoticeable. Be discrete about it but if you look at other men in dress pants, most of the time you'll be unable to notice any real obvious trace of their penis. I don't like the feeling of wearing boxer's, which packing, in dress pants because absolutely nothing is keeping anything in place, and thing's tend to.. wander... I've made the mistake a few times and I hate having to make my way to the bathroom just to put myself back in order enough not to offend anyone.

However, like all things, it's your choice to make. If you want to wear boxers in your dress pants, expect your bulge to be more noticeable, but do it or wear box briefs for more control over the situation. Either way, it's your choice!

But to re-answer your question, the only other type of pant's i've found to show your stuff off more is flannel pj bottoms. So yes, they do make you bulge very noticeable if not coupled with tighter underwear (boxer briefs/briefs)

A bit more of my personal opinion, take it as you will but I feel that if you are wearing dress pants, that means you are in a very formal environment and you should not be showing off your junk in any way that causes attention. You are there to do your job, not trying to lay the intern. That's just my opinion though, take it or leave it.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: kaiju on June 06, 2013, 11:25:15 AM
I pack most of the time, simply for my own comfort. If you're not comfortable packing in dress pants, you don't have to. I personally like to pack whenever I can, it makes me feel a little more at ease and less anxious in regards to my body.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: conformer on June 10, 2013, 10:35:57 PM
I pack in whatever type of pants I'm wearing. At work we have to wear dress pants and I guess I've never paid that much attention to the bulge (at the same time it's never just been sticking out like HEEEEEYY).

Perhaps it helps that I wear boxer briefs and don't have a large packer. I have the 3.5 peecock 1st gen.
Title: Re: Dress pants
Post by: Liminal Stranger on June 11, 2013, 09:16:16 PM
I pack in dress pants...with socks. My short stature has given me plenty of unwanted opportunity to see cisguys wearing them and it looks just fine when I pack, there but not obnoxiously so the way a cis male's parts would be. Pack if you want, just be careful that you don't pledge allegiance to everyone when you're wearing them  :P