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Community Conversation => Significant Others talk => Topic started by: Crackpot on May 28, 2013, 01:26:24 AM

Title: little intro from a newbie
Post by: Crackpot on May 28, 2013, 01:26:24 AM
Gosh darnit. Don't you just hate when you type out a nice heartfelt intro and your tablet decides to eat it?

Anyway the abbreviated version cause I'm not doing it all over again.
I'm a cis female married to a preop (and pre hormone) transwoman. He has been in counseling prior to starting HRT and currently prefers the male pronouns until he gets further along. We've been together 7 years, and celebrated our 1 year wedding anniversary this weekend. He told me of his feelings within the first year of us being together but despite my support had too much inner conflict about transitioning to do it before now.
I'm very happy to have this community availible. Just seeing some of my fears reassured is helpful. I'm such a compulsive planner that I've probably read everything the internet has to offer but still I know I can never really be prepared for what speed bumps are ahead of us. Its reassuring that I have a place to turn with others going through or have gone through it as well.

I look forward to getting to know you all!
Title: Re: little intro from a newbie
Post by: bunyip on May 28, 2013, 01:36:15 AM
Welcome to the pair of you.

I reckon we'll get to know you too, over time. And perhaps we can smooth out the speed bumps.

And if you're ever feeling like a chat, why not head over to Susans chat.
Title: Re: little intro from a newbie
Post by: Cindy on May 28, 2013, 02:40:02 AM
Hi Tiffols,

Oh I know the computer eating post so well!!!

Welcome and please join in there is a significant others sections as well where you can seek advice from other SO's in similar situations.

I hope you both travel well and if I, or any members can do to help in anyway, just ask and we will try to do so.

Hugs
Cindy
Title: Re: little intro from a newbie
Post by: spacial on May 28, 2013, 06:39:37 AM
Brilliant to see you Tiffols.

As a History teacher I once had said, 'Organisation is the essence of progress'.
Title: Re: little intro from a newbie
Post by: Crackpot on May 28, 2013, 09:01:42 PM
Thank you for the warm welcomes :)
Title: Re: little intro from a newbie
Post by: Darkie on May 28, 2013, 09:10:51 PM
Welcome and congrats on the one year!!
Title: Re: little intro from a newbie
Post by: Ms. OBrien CVT on May 28, 2013, 09:31:28 PM
Hi Tiffols, :icon_wave:

Welcome to our little family. Over 11400 . That would be one heck of a family reunion.

Feel free to post your successes/failures, Hopes/dreams.  Ask questions and seek answers. Give and receive advice.

But remember we are family here, your family now. And it is always nice to have another SO. (https://www.susans.org/proxy.php?request=http%3A%2F%2Fsmileys.on-my-web.com%2Frepository%2FAnimals%2Fferret-3.gif&hash=f49e2f86761323f2abd9c33941920389dbb3b10f)

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